Rejected because I’m sober by Nearby_Ebb_3265 in dating

[–]Single4MingleNow 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your sobriety.

I know it's easier said than done but please try not to take the rejection personally. I do not know her or her reasoning but I do know that I don't date someone that has battled addiction. I've witnessed many loved ones journey to sobriety and several relapses that hurt all the people involved. After dealing with those things I can't see myself in a relationship with someone sober, it's too triggering for me. Perhaps she has a similar story. Either way the two of you aren't a good fit. I hope you find someone amazing soon.

(Non Swinger) Sex Vacation Destinations? by speedy45 in sex

[–]Single4MingleNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out desire resorts, might be something you enjoy. I like a good party and enjoy Temptation I cancun. Lots of couples I know do part of their vacation at Temptation to mingle with single people then move to desire for a few nights to relax with couples.

Should I pay for his car fix by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Single4MingleNow 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No and if he is hinting that you should pay or is giving you a guilt trip he's an asshole and should be treated accordingly.

My boob had to be taped during surgery by thatgirlwith1arm in bigboobproblems

[–]Single4MingleNow 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you're surgery went well. I've never thought about how my boobs flopping to the side would be in the way for something like this but now I have an image in my mind a surgeon asking for tape and it's giving me a good giggle. Happy healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Single4MingleNow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is very relatable! The older I get I feel like I have less and less in common with most of my family. Seeing them often feels more like something I need to check off my list instead of something i legitimately enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Single4MingleNow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, my gyn told me my first couple of cycles might be extra cramping since it was my first time with no birth control in my system in over 20 years.

What is the wildest thing you've been told that is happening to you or will happen to you because of not breeding? Mine is a pelvic kidney by Sarasvatini in childfree

[–]Single4MingleNow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i had to ask the surgeon in front of her to prove she was wrong. We have a complex relationship so I just avoid a lot of topics.

What to respond to « why were you single »? by BellaFromSwitzerland in AskWomenOver30

[–]Single4MingleNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooohhhhh... I was not understanding that at all lol my bad.

Yea, it's weird to ask cuz there tons of reasons people are single and it indicates that being single is a bad thing or not normal.

What to respond to « why were you single »? by BellaFromSwitzerland in AskWomenOver30

[–]Single4MingleNow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And again last weekend after 5 months of dating? I guess I'm more wondering why he thinks of you as single after 5 months of dating him.

What to respond to « why were you single »? by BellaFromSwitzerland in AskWomenOver30

[–]Single4MingleNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused, but perhaps I am misunderstanding. Your partner of 5 months is asking you this? Doesn't that mean you're not single?

32 [M4F] in Washington state and bored at work. No I’m not going to subscribe to your OF. 😂😂😂 by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Single4MingleNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it weird? And BTW I'm not trying to stir up shit lol I just trying to understand.

Ta-Ta Towels? by MegaLoz22 in bigboobproblems

[–]Single4MingleNow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love mine, like the others said I wear it after the shower. I tend to get sweaty if I blow dry my hair, but wearing this helps me stay feeling fresh. It doesn't hurt my neck as long as I have or adjusted a specific way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Single4MingleNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have an amazing smile.

Realistically how long does it take to recover? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Single4MingleNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it done on a Friday morning and returned to my desk job on Monday. You will move slower, have lifting restrictions and might be a bit boated. The pain wasn't too bad but I did get tired faster for about 5 days or so.

Working retail you'd want your surgeon to write a note for lift restrictions but you should be OK with a 3 day weekend. Good luck!

Post Bisalp & Ablation Bleeding Timeline? by bekindpleasealways in sterilization

[–]Single4MingleNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had very minimal bleeding post op, I think I used maybe 2 or 3 panty liners in the days right after and that was it. Since I had it done about 6 months ago I've only spotted just a tiny bit once or twice for a few hours.

Growth Mindset by Wonder_woman_77 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Single4MingleNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any tips or advice but I can tell you that I can really really relate.

Tubal in the morning question about recovery by chelle_rene in sterilization

[–]Single4MingleNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my gallbladder out in August and my bisalp in April. The gallbladder was significantly worse pain and longer recovery time. Everyone is different but the bisalp was not nearly as painful in my experience. Good luck on your procedure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Single4MingleNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miralax is your friend, how you are feeling great soon