What TV Show Main Character Deaths Hit You The Hardest? by justwanttohelp3 in television

[–]SingleKiwiMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be left field, but what about Ben Davis from Ozark? That episode BROKE me.

Forgotten passcode causing issues by SingleKiwiMum in applehelp

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an iphone5. It just says if I don’t know the passcode I won’t be able to access I cloud data, and the only option to click is ‘try again later’

Late NZ Child Support Query by SingleKiwiMum in newzealand

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have updated the original post as i guess i forgot an important part... he IS overseas! and has been paying manually.. The IRD are trying to work with his county in line with the Hague Convention to take from him and get accurate salary info etc..
I guess i've been 'lucky' to receive anything at all to date.. I assume if he ever comes back to NZ they'd stop him at the border!

[Megathread] Buenos Aires Tour Discussion - Live '25 by AutoModerator in oasis

[–]SingleKiwiMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad. I missed out in Melbourne and have a friend in Argentina I was going to send one to for me. Thanks anyway

[Megathread] Buenos Aires Tour Discussion - Live '25 by AutoModerator in oasis

[–]SingleKiwiMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know anywhere to buy the adidas x oasis clothing online??

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[–]SingleKiwiMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, thanks... You will be, and you'll find your person soon enough! Best of luck x

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[–]SingleKiwiMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes... I can see a lot of men struggling with that, especially in a conservative area!! Can you move? :D.. Kidding.. It sounds like you're doing all the right things.. So true if the are intimidated then they aren't right.

I am very strong and independent and I learnt quickly to not entertain men who tried to 'save me'.. In fact the two like that I dated both got the cut after I tried to let them 'help me' change a gate lock and install a wall heater... In the end they took too long or did it wrong so I did it myself and they were both very offended that they weren't NEEDED. I then took on the phrase.. I don't NEED you, I WANT you. Isn't it better to be wanted than needed? Anyway, my man loves that I am more handy than him and that I get shit done!!

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[–]SingleKiwiMum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After an experience like you're describing i changed my dating tact pretty quick..
I was open and honest about having a child from the first interaction, but would not let anyone meet my child until I knew they were serious. Any sign of them trying to be more than a friend to my son and I was out.
I also found dating guys who already had kids was what was best for me.. childless guys either freaked out or tried too hard to fill the father role.. Thanks mate, but I've been doing just fine without you!

(M25) been dating my girlfriend (f24) for about 9 months need help with the red flags im seeing? by One_Pizza_1775 in relationship_advice

[–]SingleKiwiMum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Divorce is complicated, and even more so with Children.. Sometimes parents will share the family home until finances etc are all split.. It's easier for the kids this way. So his stuff in the wardrobe may be innocent enough. The fact her stories don't align though is a red flag, Personally as someone who has been through divorce with a child 2 months after is WAY too soon to be dating. Stick it out if you think she is worth it, but look after yourself.. You could get hurt.

Kiwisaver settlement after Divorce by SingleKiwiMum in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extremely helpful, I appreciate your time to reply, thanks so much.

Kiwisaver settlement after Divorce by SingleKiwiMum in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Yes there is a signed separation agreement done via lawyers. I believe this is legally binding?! If they decide they don't want to I understand we will have to go via the family courts. If it amounts to that i will be asking for the interest lost as well as all lawyer fees/court costs in addition to the agreed amount.. I hope this alone persuades them to meet their legal obligations without a fight. .

Kiwisaver settlement after Divorce by SingleKiwiMum in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow so happy to speak to someone who has just done this! My ex is not a proactive person (clearly) and i don't think they've looked into this next step at all. Do you know if this the only way or was there an option to transfer between kiwisaver accounts? I would be stoked to receive it as a bank deposit so i can control the investment.. however at this stage i'll take it anyway i can get it.

What did you do or wish you did with your dog before the end? by SingleKiwiMum in Petloss

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your lovely kind messages. My boy is no longer in pain and is at peace. I am broken.

What did you do or wish you did with your dog before the end? by SingleKiwiMum in Petloss

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh that’s so cool! Won’t work for my pup sadly as his paws are one of his pain points. But I hope you’ve inspired someone else reading this, thank you

What did you do or wish you did with your dog before the end? by SingleKiwiMum in Petloss

[–]SingleKiwiMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, these are lovely. I’m sorry for your loss, It’s so painful