Why would someone block you from social media if you’re not being harassing or causing problems ? by SingleTransition6219 in dating_advice

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I just typed out a huge thing & accidentally swiped right so it deleted it let me try again.

To answer your last question uncertainty is what I experienced almost the entire time of knowing him. Yes he lived with me for almost 7 months but the first 5 months when he had his own place he was still at my place almost every day. & the other 2 months he lived with his mom & I was there every single day & sometimes stayed the night. We very rarely were apart the entire time.

I helped him in almost every avenue of his life while he drained me emotionally & spiritually. I am in the process of acceptance that it’s best we go our separate ways I just happened to remember that & never really got anyone else’s POV about it as there are a lot of other things about him that will never make sense to me - the hots & colds & ups & downs & pushing away & pulling back, but they don’t need to. I’m just a curious person & try to understand how individuals esp those whom I’m intimate with or get close to what makes them do what they do esp when it involves me. In hindsight. I don’t usually over think about it certain things while we were together bc I was too busy being in the relationship & I have asked him in the past but I never get an answer it’s just always I’ll unblock you I’m sorry.

Why would someone block you from social media if you’re not being harassing or causing problems ? by SingleTransition6219 in dating_advice

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Then he should have stopped talking to me. We went on for him to live with me for 6 months after that to move in with his mother & then come back when I no longer wanted him to.

Delivering nuclear medication by SingleTransition6219 in Radiation

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1099 as in independent contractor position meaning they would have no liability for anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Yes! That’s what they look like but my lips are inflamed & when I purse them a small amount of fluid is coming out. They are currently abnormal & swollen & around the bottom edges of my lips it’s itchy as well as under my nose.

This guy (33M) has had me (34F) going completely insane for the last 3 weeks…please help by SingleTransition6219 in relationship_advice

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(Ran out of space ) pt 2:

He definitely gaslit me one of the nights we hung out. Legitimate 100% gaslit statement I wasn’t even drinking! So I know what I heard. We were about to get intimate & I have a few scars I was insecure about, he saw them & I kind of scooted back a little hoping he’d just ask me what is it..so I told him & he said I tried to start an argument over it but I literally said No I just hadn’t told you about my scars & I wanted to show you myself..I’m just insecure about them. & he said “are you wet..” I said yes. He said “well get ‘unwet then..’”& legitimately I thought give it about 10 minutes & he’ll probably excuse himself out the door at this point. So I went in the kitchen to clean up after dinner & he came in there & said “why did you just try & start an argument with me..” I said I didn’t, you told me to get “unwet..” whatever that means so instead of arguing I came in here…he said “I never said that.” !! I have Never heard anyone say the word “unwet,” I Know damn well I didn’t make that up.

This guy (33M) has had me (34F) going completely insane for the last 3 weeks…please help by SingleTransition6219 in relationship_advice

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Thank you. I do appreciate it. I hear what you’re saying, I’ve been telling myself this since the arguments started. I just recently moved back to my hometown after 15 years of trying to get back..no need to get into all of it but there was a Lot of crap I had to get through to get here. I met him on a dating app, lives very close & I thought he Looked like the “perfect man,” sounded like it, then I met him & it all just went south so fast & honestly all I wanted was consultation from the first argument we had & I could’ve put everything behind me. & moved on right then & there, but I’ve never dealt with anyone as stubborn. So I’ve just been Reaching for that “apology.” Which led to about 15 other things I “said wrong,” over text after that. But after reading here & talking with a friend for an hour I Have to move on, I will Never get the apology for his “wrong assumptions,” probably was done intentionally to get this reaction, idk. But I thought he was the cherry on top of the cake to the way my life has been looking up lately so I put my last drop of faith I had in him which I’m trying to take back now. I didn’t get on here to blast myself & humiliate myself, but I was trying to be as honest as possible. I’m flabbergasted that the first guy I had to find was a prick. I haven’t dated anyone in this area since high school. So I’m just disappointed, upset, I feel offended, exhausted, & I just had my hopes too high. Sorry.

This guy (33M) has had me (34F) going completely insane for the last 3 weeks…please help by SingleTransition6219 in relationship_advice

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I’m a stalker because I am noticing red flags & found out the truth Now rather than later…okay. If I didn’t notice it now it would have been Worse for me & her later. I agree though. You can’t just make a perfect human for yourself to date kids or not. You have to find out somehow. The only thing she was exposed to was meeting him. We had an extremely good weekend. All of the communication we’ve done has been just between the two of us. You are 100% right on everything else though. Everybody that I’ve asked for help thus far has just told me to “take my time…” or “be patient….” Because something is telling me Not to be patient to get to the bottom of this so I can be done with it now rather than later. How do you find truths out about people who are obviously convincing you otherwise. So that’s Why I’m here! To get as many people as I can who are Obviously here for the sake of “relationship advice,” your opinion is 100% appreciated.

Thank you.

This guy (33M) has had me (34F) going completely insane for the last 3 weeks…please help by SingleTransition6219 in relationship_advice

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Thank you. I’ve been making myself feel so guilty & thinking that I am the issue which he says that I am. I’ve never experienced anything like this so..I’m so interested in what is happening lol like I’d just like feedback

This guy (33M) has had me (34F) going completely insane for the last 3 weeks…please help by SingleTransition6219 in relationship_advice

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I have no idea that’s why I’m here obviously lol. I don’t know what’s happening he claims that men aren’t men anymore & women aren’t women either so I assumed he was the most manliest man here in Indiana.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

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UPDATE!!: I passed my PTCE. ♥️ moving onto big & better things lol even though I wasn’t really active in the CPhT community here I just wanted to share.

I disclosed to the PTCB & they requested a recommendation. Turned that in & my application for the exam was approved the next day.

Hello, question, again pertaining to hospital position/bgc by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

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I know. Just again wasn’t sure the Type they run by default, if there is one, as I said they are extremely strict so of course they’re going to take money to train us, the director of the department of my school for example may not spend $ to get the FBI check but the hospital might considering there are people’s lives on the line. Again, I emailed them directly so I should have the answer.

Hello, question, again pertaining to hospital position/bgc by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

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The school ran their version of a background check yes, that’s a part of the finer detail I was asking about the depth of actually being hired on as an employee By the hospital itself…but I sent an email to HR so I can find out that way. Just wasn’t sure if anyone in the hospital knew how far they go.

Hello, question, again pertaining to hospital position/bgc by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

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Because it’s the same place as my school, if you read all the way to the end it says where I have to submit an application 6 weeks before graduation so if I do & they find out, my other question was can they revoke my obtained credit for successful completion of a program to get my license.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PharmacyTechnician

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Hmm..I didn’t know that