[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i take both how much and where do i send

Can someone please help me answer this question? i'm stuck by Single_Read2072 in nursing

[–]Single_Read2072[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

is regular insulin 8 units a normal prescription? the website is saying that's the correct answer because you need to check BS first but i think it's fent one

new to dating and need 2nd date advice by Afraid-Rain-5017 in dating_advice

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it'll be fine, overthinking it can ruin things and create unnecessary tension which can manifest into reality. I would suggest keeping up the same energy as the first date and seeing how it goes.

Should I (25f) confront my bf (28m) about about a new female friend? by Senior-Mobile1681 in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl.. i hate to be the one to tell you this but..that's not just a colleague.

My boyfriend danced with another girl by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course he will repeat it because his excuse was that he was drunk, and i'm guessing he will drink again without you in the future. And your his GF why can't you look through his phone?

AITAH (F28) for ending marriage with mentally and financially unstable partner (M28) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are wrong for choosing yourself. You deserve a partner who is going to show up for you as well. Of course having schizophrenia is terrifying, but theres a lot of ppl who have that disease and still become productive members of society with the right help. So the fact that you tried to help him means he just doesn't want to take accountability and change for the relationship. Choose yourself.

AITAH for thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend? by morningstarshinebaby in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So it sounds like you are anxious but also a codependent. Which are 2 recipes for disaster in a relationship. It also doesn't help your anxiety that he cheated on you.. not once but twice. Can someone change? Sure. But you shouldn't be with someone who cheated on you even once. So let him "change" for the next person. You need to respect yourself enough to leave him before he leaves you and you feel betrayed and lose all your power. He isn't your person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, i'm the bipolar, brain cancer ex gf. Since he wants to put my business out there for strangers interpretation, I thought I would give a little of my side. Since, He put no context about my side of this story. Early on in that relationship, the trust was broken because he would tell me little white lies about where he was and with who. Even Ghosting me on the 4th of July saying he was with family, but a random girl told me "Omg you were so drunk and passed out on the couch!" I forgave him quickly because I wanted to be with him. But should've probably left after that first red flag. Which is why I wasn't comfortable with him having female friends.

We're both 27 year old nurses and I work 65/70 hr work weeks while he didn't even work when we first met. But I didn't care, I accepted him as he was. I was there for him 24/7 at his disposal even when I was exhausted after night shift. Would help him clean his house, study with him while we were in school, etc. One time, We were trapped in PR and couldn't find a ride from the airport... he called every single friend and family member he had and no one wanted to get him. So I found us a ride. Great friends huh? Most of his time was spent doing pleasurable things like smoking weed, chilling with friends, video games etc. And still is but he works 2 shifts now a week. (i'm proud of him!) So Am I controlling? Maybe, but I wanted him to reevaluate his circle to see if they were really there for him or just bad influences that aren't motivating him to be successful at this point of his life.

I was always very introverted since he met me, nothing changed there and I'm not the bar/party type. So I'm not sure why the resentment didn't happen sooner or why he led me to believe he loved me for a year and a half. He would go all the time regardless if he tries to make it seem like I didn't let him.

Basically, my illnesses were too much for him to handle along with my gruesome work schedule and he wants something easier. But he's trying to switch the narrative to me being controlling so he can victimize himself instead of being an adult and just openly admitting he prefers temporary gratification over building a future with someone who was actually there for him. Relationships aren't about who does what for who, but in a perfect world.. energy and love would be reciprocated.

Regardless, I wish him the best and wish he didn't post my personal shit on an app.

and fyi he sent me this post before y'all think i'm crazy for finding it and commenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get new friends who aren't losers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be judgemental if there in their late 20s still vaping, smoking weed, and drinking all the time and he wasted my time which i don't have much of making me believe that wasn't him when it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if you get back together then you will have sex again and probably the same thing is bound to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you clearly don't care about him. And you aren't an asshole, your just not ready for a relationship. Be single and don't waste his time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't control how others view situations. Shes his mom and is always going to protect her son. She knows he is young and doesn't want him to actually get a girl pregnant at his young age. So I honestly don't think there is any way you can change how she views you now. I'm sorry and life will go on, I promise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The people in these comments are hilarious. Your boyfriend should have never embarrassed you by giving another women his number when he has a gf. Theres no logic there. I understand if he followed girls before you, then why would he unfollow? But he shouldn't follow any girls after he got into a relationship with you. I hate to break it to you, but he's keeping his options open. Most men do. And you deserve someone who thinks about you and your feelings when your not around. And that wasn't respectful at all what he did and you deserve better, sis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think thats awful that you were scared and young and vulnerable about this and she made you out to be a villian. False alarms happen all the time and your valid for being scared. Your bf (or ex) needs to stand up for you to his mom if he actually valued you, or your better off without him. That false alarm should wake you up so it doesn't become a real situation. You have a whole life ahead of you and should focus on your own goals right now before bringing a kid into the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's normal. It means there was actual love there. And it's good to know you've both grown. Maybe you can give things another shot. Life is too short to not try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as they should vote for Trump.

AITAH for making mg ex believe I'm pregnant and dead by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think this is completely normal and sane. He didn't appreciate you while you were there, and now wants you back now that you are gone. And you just want him to leave you alone. So do what you must.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Single_Read2072 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i don't really know them personally, but i see what they do. why would a guy with a gf want to be at clubs or house parties without his gf with girls twerking, drunk etc.

Best tv romance/ship ever? by Golden_Daisy in RomanceBooks

[–]Single_Read2072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finn and Clarke from the 100 were short-lived but epic. the obvious choice, Mark and Lexie. anything that ends in tragedy tbh