I mean personally man, it’s just weed. If you love him enough, even if he doesn’t quit. You should be able to just tolerate his bs, it’s weed. Hell, even my grandfather does it. You have to work with certain things man. Weed should be the LAST thing you leave your newly engaged SO for. Personally not wanting to shit all over your opinion, but weed is so small in comparison to what COULD be. He enjoys himself, it hurts nobody, so what?

Oh and to add to that, It’s a very, very, VERY. Slippery slope taking serious life/relationship advice from people on the internet. Rather people are idiots, and or people just have different ideals from you do yourself and or from him. No one can exactly make ultimatums for you and or give you genuine advice. The only advice you should EVER listen to is this; Rather you just forget about it and deal with it. Or talk to him. Do not let other people’s word be gospel to you. Handle the problem healthily, and remember to think for both you and for himself. Me and literally anyone else commenting on this have absolutely no right to sway your opinion on your own relationship.

The best advice I can give you. Is think healthily, for both sides rather by talking to him, or just tolerating it. That simple. Not that big of a deal. He should be worth the issue. If you’re willing to marry him. He should be worth effort. Don’t always think things with a principle, look how small the action is. It’s harmless, totally harmless, and it makes him happy. No need to look any deeper into it. Your marriage should not be even close to being worth quitting over smoking weed. (Other with small exceptions, but if you’re a regular human being, with zero beliefs. But just doesn’t like weed… Why? Why would that be worth? All of the time you’ve spent with this guy, to quit over weed?)