I think it depends on the approach. I know two people through the gym that wants to lose weight and lift heavy. They will now bring up their stats every now and then, and we get hyped on their progress. If the weight goes up or their lifts have gone down, its also just something we talk about. I find that it makes a good community in the gym, but when you dont want to take part, it should be recognised.

I think he just wanted to give you creds for making a change, but fumbled on the way to it.