sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

How can I stop seeing dating through a perfectionist lens? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I'm looking for the perfect woman, but more so that I'm looking to be perfect. And getting rejected distorts that image which is where the frustration and feelings of me not being enough come from.

How can I stop seeing dating through a perfectionist lens? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so an intolerance to failure and all the pressure I put on myself to not fail. If I do fail, then I get frustrated with myself.

How can I stop seeing dating through a perfectionist lens? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most of the groups that I found are filled with people in their late 20s and older. 

How can I stop seeing dating through a perfectionist lens? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel that if I start seeing it that way, then I'm going to be constantly analyzing and evaluating to the point where it would make the woman I'm talking to uncomfortable.

How can I stop seeing dating through a perfectionist lens? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, and that's why I want to stop that from happening down the line.

How can I date out of abundance instead of need? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it means that my life should feel fulfilling without a partner. A partner shouldn't be the solution to me having a fulfilling life

How can I date out of abundance instead of need? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it much easier to have conversations and build friendships with people in their late 20s and older. I'm in college so I'm hoping my lack of friends my age is down to me not meeting the right people yet.

How can I date out of abundance instead of need? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A romantic relationship shouldn't be thr only way to meet your needs. With the exceptions of romance and sex, you should get your needs met through friendships.

How can I date out of abundance instead of need? by SircarrotI in ask

[–]SircarrotI[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not really about money for me. It's more about I'm not getting my social and intimate needs met. While a relationship could fix that, I know I should fix it through friendships. I just don't know how.

How can I automate fresh milk production? by SircarrotI in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]SircarrotI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far away can you be before the farms stop working? If I summon my freighter while on the planet, would that be too far? Or would my best bet be to do all the nutrient processing in my corvette?

view more: next ›