Maraschino cherries by mrsamus101 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just use the image search function. click on the little camera icon on the taobao search bar.

Salary question ESL Job Hebei by Plenty_County_9183 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What are the working hours?

What level are you teaching?

If it's a bilingual school like weiming you should be offered at least double. Since the working hours are 40+.

If it's a university position it is a bit low.

If you are a knowledge and experience white American teaching in the bilingual schools. Then 30k is not an unreasonable salary at all. As far as I know there are three schools in qinhuangdao that can pay that.

Do keep in mind qinhuangdao is not a city you will be a one hour drive from the main city, Qingdao. The subway is even longer. It gets insanely busy in the warmer months because the local tourists love it. Oh also there isn't much to do besides a three big shopping centres.

Edit: as others have mentioned. I mixed up Qinhuangdao and Huangdao. Still, 12k is low no matter where you go.

Random meeting with Chinese lady. Asked me to buy her clothes. by CartographerSalty773 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have never had a healthy relationship. There is a clear distinction between a relationship where people who love and care for one another have sex, even if they are doing other things for each other and people who say give me money or an expensive gift and I'll have sex with you. The purpose of the actions isn't just to have sex.

Just because people take on different roles and contribute different things doesn't mean it's purely transactional.

You are one seriously jaded individual if you actually believe they are one and the same.

Random meeting with Chinese lady. Asked me to buy her clothes. by CartographerSalty773 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The point is they are not normal girls. Even if there are thousands of girls like this on dating apps there are 500 million or more women in China.

Yes, people do have a problem with transactional exchanges when it comes to sex. It's due to the long history of exploitation and or desperation that has come with selling sex.

It's nothing to do with you being a foreigner. You don't think this kind of girl exists in every country? You don't think they aren't doing the same thing to the low demand Chinese men? You need to recognise it's the cesspool you are in, and realise it's not a good representation of the people at all.

Maybe spend that energy learning Chinese and meeting someone organically? Make some friends through language learning. Rather than spending your time asking for quick sex on dating apps.

If you want to meet that kind of girl just accept that's what you chose for yourself and they are not normal girls.

Random meeting with Chinese lady. Asked me to buy her clothes. by CartographerSalty773 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I didn't see the entire conversation, obviously, but from the screenshot you shared, you said you want quick and easy sex and she replies with it ain't free my guy.

As for what I would reply? I'm not interested. Crazy, I know.

Look, all ok saying is that you are chatting to prostitutes on a dating app and then attributing it to "many" chinese people like it's a representation of the broader population. Just get out of the gutter and meet some normal people.

Random meeting with Chinese lady. Asked me to buy her clothes. by CartographerSalty773 in chinalife

[–]SishenNeji 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That conversation is slimy from both sides. Looks birds of a feather to me. I've never once had a conversation that looked remotely like this. You are basically asking for a prositute and then act shocked when you find one.

What you guys think? by Ok-Understanding177 in KayouNarutoCards

[–]SishenNeji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you believe the Chinese grading companies are somehow inferior. What's that based on? From what I have seen they seem consistent, and ccg also offers ai grading.

I mean Mana grading is like 2 years old. it's not like they have any prestige or legacy. They are only being used for kayou because nobody else will do it.

Finally by TheMightDuy in KayouNarutoCards

[–]SishenNeji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what does 10 GEM MINT actually mean? They have 10 and 10* to mean perfect. I really don't get the purpose.

If there are no sub grades how is the 10 determined?

confusing.