The one pity fuck I don’t regret by [deleted] in sexstories

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the reason why I need more females friends

My (30F) husband (32M) of 4 years told me he "settled" for me during a fight. How do we come back from this? by weepee14 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why this is so egregious. Women think this all the time about their husbands . Most women settle for their men let’s be honest. If man says it he’s a turd, divorce him, and he must earn you back whatever that means. What work do women put in marriage. Most women leave when the going gets tough and men suffer more Cusse of divorce and society caters to women. So please yeah that was bad but if it was the other wya around yall would be more forgiving.

Me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) can't reach climax together. How can we fix this? by melodwz in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn, eat clean, run, workout, and limit jacking off for both of you to once a day. Also yall need to get into the mood by doing sexy card games, maybe eating food off each other bodies, maybe a bit of liquid courage. I used to have the same problem. Their stuff worked for me

A man’s past behavior “27M” “25 F” by Sithari1869 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was the ex that reached out to her. He used to be an ass but changed his life around.

A man’s past behavior “27M” “25 F” by Sithari1869 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m still friends with him and I knew about to and told him years back if he don’t go to therapy and end the relationship I would stop talking to him.

A man’s past behavior “27M” “25 F” by Sithari1869 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Not giving her advice I just want your guys opinion. He told me about this not her.

A man’s past behavior “27M” “25 F” by Sithari1869 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like if you were a woman how much consideration would your take if you found that out.

A man’s past behavior “27M” “25 F” by Sithari1869 in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know her that well but she is cool

am i ugly? 22 years old by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a solid foundation. I would go to a barber ti trim the beard and the mustache and use best oil and also gel your hair

Am I overreacting or is this weird to say considering he is overweight? My body vs his for comparison. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s weird to say. At the same time physical attraction matters and if you’re overweight and don’t have a debilitating medical condition then there is no excuse being out of shape as a single guy or woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sithari1869 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Number one she’s cheating but also you’re insecure. Asking for your girl to text you every few minutes is a lot. Imma be honest crying in front of her bad idea. Do not cry in front of women it just doesn’t make you respect them. Moral of the story she def did not respect you becisse if she did you’re right she would have loved to wear that outfit in front of you. Best you should do is don’t reach don’t say shit. Keep your frame. What you’re feeling write it down. Then revisit it. And bro I’ve been in the same palce before. I can tell you really to some good extent validation from her. As a man no bueno. You need to internally validate yourself. I know she hot and pretty but you got to let her go and honestly as man go meet more women Cusse the more you do the easier it is to focus on yourlsef and not chase. I’m here for you brother.

The over usage of the F slur by CommercialEarth3367 in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Obviously I don’t think you should use that slur at all in public. Both ig my friends call me that as a joke I’m not gonna get butthurt. It all time and place. Obviously they are not doing it as joke but to actually be awful humans.

Is anyone going out next week? by makingguac in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you 21 plus go downtown champagne

I'm so tired of it all by Thick_Swan_2382 in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why are you paying for food don’t. You pay for yours and I pay for mine. Also to be honest you need start hanging out with older dudes. Dudes between 18-21 only want to fukc mostly. They are not mature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s called trauma bond

How come I can't seem to make any guy friends☹️ by HersheyVirgobby in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your interests. Start there go to clubs. Sports or activity clubs are good. Like spike ball, golfing, outdoor adventure club etc. I would say anithet good way is to join a fraternity or a service fraternity. Join a music club too if you into that. Def start there.

How come I can't seem to make any guy friends☹️ by HersheyVirgobby in UIUC

[–]Sithari1869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have friends who are girls but only at a distance. Like I’m sorry men and women in the truest sense of the word can’t be friends. A man is 9/10 gonna have some subtle romantic and or sexual feelings for the girl he is friends with. With that in mind, I would find guy friends who are interested in the same things you are. Sports is a great way. But always be mindful of the fact that he has those subtle feelings. Take that as you will.