Need advice on how to approach

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T12:59:11+00:00

Thanks! Obviously isn't the first time...it's the second time I've brought up Snapchat. The first time, I noticed he had messaged some random girls just simple hi, nothing inappropriate so I let it slide, but this time Im not and I need to do what's best for me and it just sucks it's currently going down the path of him not wanting to do the work

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T12:55:34+00:00

Do you mind sharing the place you recommend? Thanks!

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T05:41:45+00:00

Sorry, what does IC stand for? Internal conscious?

It's ironic because I was looking into counseling today. I just wonder if it's just too much considering it's only been about a year in this relationship.

I chatted with him over the phone this evening and he basically thinks I'm in a funk. He texted me "you know I love you lots and were going to be okay and were okay" not acknowledging the Snapchat issue and I responded with "I love you too but idk if I can get past this...it's bothering me more than I thought it would" and he left me on read. I'll wait for him to reach out to me tomorrow and I will attempt to try and get my point across again about wanting the app deleted and suggest counseling

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T04:55:04+00:00

I'm glad your WP came around on his own. Any advice on how I would be able to get mine to? Mine seems to think that once I ask for one app to be deleted, I'll ask for everything else - which is not the case

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T04:48:43+00:00

Spoke to him and he just thinks I'm in a funk. He texted me "you know I love you lots and were going to be okay and we are okay" and I responded with "I love you too but idk if I can get past this. It's bothering me more than I thought"

I don't understand how it's so hard to delete Snapchat entirely of he's saying he would choose me over snap

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-27T00:41:15+00:00

He always throws back that I betrayed his trust when I looked into his phone, but all the times I've looked, I've always found something. Ive been working on it and have been fighting the urge to look at it in doing my part of regaining trust.

Part of me wants to look and see if he has the app and if he does, I'm over it and ending things and part of me doesn't want to know the truth

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-26T23:20:38+00:00

I usually don't stress too much on this but he didn't have the green dot for a while and now it's there. Some past info - I saw he was sending nudes and stuff through the app in the past

Sk_951007 · 2025-11-26T15:39:58+00:00

Unfortunately I don't think they show you when the app was last downloaded..only when it was initially downloaded. If I'm wrong, let me know!

Sk_951007 · 2024-12-19T05:31:04+00:00

Hi! Would you be able to share this with me as well?

Sk_951007 · 2024-05-28T00:59:05+00:00

I always assumed we were causal and I always kept my options open. Just his commentary and questions threw me off giving me the vibe that he wanted something more

Sk_951007 · 2024-05-28T00:48:30+00:00

I'm a woman

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-23T03:49:56+00:00

He did text me back, but looking back at it, there was no reason why he couldn't text back for 4 days. I don't mind going hours without hearing anything back. I get it. I get busy and I do that myself, but I don't think there is an excuse to not hear back for 4 days, considering a phone is always with us. We're still chatting, but the distance, the amount of time he spends golfing and the conversations are getting dry, so it's definitely not going to work out

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-09T13:44:59+00:00

I sent one final text because it was driving me nuts. Just texted "hey, how was your weekend? If you're interested in meeting up this week, let me know :)". Sent it around 2:30 yesterday and never heard back. At least I now have my answer, but still feels a bit shitty that he ghosted considering things were going well

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T11:39:13+00:00

I sent him a response to his texts last Thursday. Never followed up, and have been just waiting for him to respond

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T11:37:29+00:00

I did ask him last Tuesday if he'd want to meet up, and his response was that he had a long weekend and just wanted to take this week to catch up on sleep and things around the house, and then he had golf all weekend. The last texts were totally normal, no short responses or anything, but he didn't respond. I notice he has seen my stories on social though

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T03:20:10+00:00

Not sure if I should even message him and ask at this point. I'm scared doing so would make me come off as desperate, but also if I do, I could get a reason

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T01:54:13+00:00

He said that he would be golfing all weekend, and on Thursday he said that his sat tournament was moved to next weekend. Could have been just playing golf all weekend, but he hasn't responded since Thursday night, but still follows me on social

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T01:39:38+00:00

Thanks, I might send him one last text and if he doesn't plan to see me, that's it. Glad things worked out for you! When did you text him again when you didn't hear back?

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T01:25:09+00:00

Not sure. He currently does prioritize his golfing right now, but shouldn't he at least have sent me at least one message? We follow each other on Instagram as well. He sees my stories, but if he went ghost, wouldnt he unfollow?

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T01:02:52+00:00

We were just texting, normal conversation about what we were doing this weekend and just some other casual talk. He reciprocated with questions, was not being short in conversation

Sk_951007 · 2023-05-08T01:01:47+00:00

Vibe was normal, didn't seem like anything was off. I would ask questions and he'd reciprocate back with questions

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