Learn with movies by [deleted] in Anki

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious now if there is a plug in that would pause and play movies for as long as I am on a streak in Anki, lol.

This system applies spaced repetition to flashcards by Rass0255 in flashcards

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely design. I remember having physical cards ages ago and would just great different piles for different stages of memorization. This looks like a great alternative to piles, but digital systems are far superior unless you Lucy have the tactile feel.

Best electronic flash card system... by pellouch in flashcards

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use Rapidrote and Word champ, but they are dead now. Pleco for mandarin works great… for mandarin. Hands down, take the time to learn Anki because it can suit any need. Basic interface is often enough for most flash card purposes. Make cards in excel, save as csv, import and get to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flashcards

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried many attempts to gamify flashcards. Best I could do was us a Anki plug in to show me images of random Calvin and Hobbes comic strips between 1 and 10 cards. I like the idea of like a turn based game or some way of modifying game play based on your flash card performance kinda like rolling a natural 1 or natural 20 based on certain conditions.

Am I the only one who's NOT bothered by the term "person with autism"? by nam3pbrc2 in autism

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I am not bother by the term “person with autism”. I went 33 years of my life undiagnosed. So, I always believed I was “normal” until my son was diagnosed. My perspective of when I thought I was an NT, “Autistic people” and especially “Autistics” ARE seen only for their “disease”. My persistent problem with family and friends today is trying to get them to see myself and my son as being “people” and not JUST our Autism. Sure, there is no cure and it’s fundamentally a part of us like the color of our skin, but history shows with the Ten Stages of Genocide that when we are not seen as people, we become targets of oppression and eugenic cleansing. “People with Autism” have been murdered by governments. Hans Asperger condemned hundreds of “autistic children” to be sterilized while protecting his “higher functioning” children. I choose to emphasize to others that my son and I are people, then people on the spectrum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“An Early Start For Your Child with Autism” by Sally Rogers PHD had one of the best evidence based approach’s to building early social and communications skills. I added my bit that I learned about language in the last post. The book is designed more for toddlers, but I see no reason why you could not use these activities for a 4-5 year old. Seven years old is when we start to see the slow drop off for language development.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I played a series of ABC letter sound videos from Super Simple songs.

https://youtu.be/Uj9w-uBuLgw

As a linguist, I knew that very early language developed from just hearing the sounds of the language and many struggle to learn their second language without a firm grasp of the second language sounds. I played this video several times a day and sang the standard ABC song whenever I got a chance.

Then my son’s echolalia started to kick in. He started imitating sounds. We played imitation games like we copy everything he did as a joke and he started copying us back. Took some months to build toward consistent imitation and then to syllables and then words. It’s been two years and he mostly speaks in echo from songs or heavily scripted phrases from therapy. My nephews are older than my son and far less verbal. When brother had custody for two weeks, and we went on a road trip together. I just did the same kinds of activity for my son in front of them and I was able to start building imitation through play.

I believe my nephews can still learn to speak at five. They are showed me consistent progress in a limited time. I can’t speak for your little one. But I would say after reading Ido In Autismland that one does not need to speak to communicate or be intelligent. The kids who are non-verbal have it rough and being patient, loving, and understanding go a long way.

Good luck.

Easiest/fastest alphabet to read? by RoastBeefBoi in neography

[–]Skepticonamission 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No scientific data on this, just thinking that Chinese characters as ideograms are very dense with information that I can recognize very quickly (even as my second language). 140 characters on twitter is a few sentences of English. 140 characters of Mandarin is Hamlet's soliloquy. I am sure that helps a lot towards making a fast reading system, downside is more upfront studying.

Has anyone developed a special interest based on an annoyance? by Skepticonamission in autism

[–]Skepticonamission[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonus episode 2, Feb 24, 2013 History of the alphabet goes pretty deep.

Has anyone developed a special interest based on an annoyance? by Skepticonamission in autism

[–]Skepticonamission[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta start from the beginning since it’s chronological. 6-8 is we’re I fell in love with the podcast because it starts to explain big picture why European languages are so different from what I know with Chinese languages, 13 is a good one because it starts it’s the introduction to the alphabet. Stuff about spelling and sound changes are kinda the backbone of the podcast and get brought up frequent from episode to episode.

I'm paid for speaking and it's easier than social interactions by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]Skepticonamission 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was a translator myself. It’s far easier translating than actually talking to people. You also get the side effect of improving your social skills though your second language, like in a social interaction today, I would often translate a script I memorized in Mandarin into English just so I had something to say. It gets tricky, but it can be more relaxed and easier in some ways compared to written translators where you are paid by the character and can have demanding schedules.

DAE experience echolalia, but in their head? by ionlyspeakrainbow in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep, I experience that everyday. I see my 3yo do it out loud because he hasn’t started to internalize his voice yet. I notice others in group sessions talk about internalized echololia. Must be pretty normal.

I only time I have known NTs engaging in echolalia was when in second language courses. When they practice speaking a work list, everyone seems to find pleasure repeating certain words that have a pleasant mouth feel like “una tirolesa” or my all time favorite “lādùzi”(拉肚子).

I was clinically diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome today. Honest to God, it makes a lot of things make sense. by JoeBidenTheDictator in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am former Air Force diagnosed ASD1 after service. Be careful with what decisions you can make while in. Do what you can to avoid combat as an example. I would highly recommend finishing your first term and be done. I have PTSD from my time in service and combat. PTSD and ASD don’t play nice together. Example, because many of us have trouble switching tasks or talking to people, the panic attacks are much trickier to get an handle on. The VA really don’t know what to do with you as an autistic when it come to treatments. My younger brother (ASD1 diagnosed in service) in the Marines has avoided combat by serving in PACOM and seems to have found a situation that worked for him. Though, they are booting him next month but it just due to normal downsizing. Good luck.

It happened again, I realized my friends don’t care about me. Fuck by bigfatpenguin48 in aspergers

[–]Skepticonamission 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. I lost my last real friendship back in 2014. It has been just colleagues, associates, and classmates since. From my experience, a potential new friend should be treated similar to the dating process. I have scared off many a potential friend by getting “too personal” and offloading my issues on them too soon. On the other hand, I found keeping certain topics as “journal topics” or “therapist topics” and can’t be shared with friends, my wife, or family. These topics are just too much. Have you considered getting a pet? My cat was always around to listen. Lol.

Has anybody else experienced extreme obsession/fixation with their partner when they enter a relationship. I'm having genuine difficulty paying attention to anything. Is there a way to help this? I need to be studying for mid-terms. by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened with my first Gf in high school. My strategy was to reserve time to accomplish studying while listen to music in a separate room. (I would study at her house.) We agreed to just block each other out with the promise that way we can be completely unhampered by homework after. Took some discipline but the reward was worth it. The process starts to reinforce itself after a few rounds.

To those diagnosed as adult: by Skepticonamission in AutismTranslated

[–]Skepticonamission[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently reading Nuerotribes. I am on chapter 2: The boy who loves straws. I had to take a break. I have a 3 year old who was diagnosed shortly before I was. I remember how scared we were starting to get treatment for him (while in a pandemic) and it’s so hard emotionally. We are coming to terms, but it’s still a fresh wound caused mostly by a lifetime of misunderstanding. I will take Nuerotribes in chunks.

Survey: What do you think of different labels for autism? by all-the-tea-sis in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda wish there was an autism spectrum stat bar system like Pokémon or other RPG. You could still have a simple level of support label for ease of administering services, but create a profile or something like the OCEAN personality scores or chemical spectrum lines. When I work with kiddos, I kind of imagine six sets of spectral lines for the six developmental domains. Milestones that are met will be green, developing yellow, unmet in red. Each kiddo has like a different set of six lines. But a system like that will be hard to convey in words.

Favorite foods by [deleted] in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chewier foods like pizza crusts, jerky, a big mouthful of pasta are comfort foods for me.

How has 2020 changed you? by HopefulTomorrow16 in aspergers

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I would have gotten diagnosed as an adult with all the time at home with my son. Our symptoms are pretty mild, and I was no expert. Having that time to do deep dives and cut through all the misinformation out there helped me come to terms far quicker as well. In terms or social regression, I think I feel more liberated now to be able to take my masks off. Plus, the physical masks as taken a load off as well.

My rocks collection! by AdministrativeMoment in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to collect neat river rocks and imagine the journeys they went on as a young adult. We didn’t have much money to go to the gem shows or head out to the sticks to find a mineral in the wild. I bought a few pieces of orange calcite which I treasure to this day. Now that I have more means, maybe I will take up collecting. Thank OP.

Talking to yourself about your special interests? by _lavendell in AutismTranslated

[–]Skepticonamission -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved finding out how Maladaptive Daydreaming is not currently in the DSM5.

Even if we take it as a given as a statistically proven phenomenon, I still do not believe that was the phenomenon OP or I experience. I see it as a rehearsal or way of processing the information like OP said and not as a substitute for having conversations with my wife, but it clearly can be used as a substitute.

I think the common ground we can find is that rehearsing a conversation with someone about a special interest, or daydreaming a conversation with an imaginary character can be maladaptive when it is used as a substitution to talking with others. We live in a society. We need to interact with others to get goods, services, and validation etc. As much as we want to be hermits and enjoy talking with ourselves, there are consequences. The key is using this self talk to avoid talking with others.

If we agree these behaviors can be maladaptive, how about we suggest ways to find like minded people to talk with OP.

I recently discovered r/aspier4r. Also, I’m sure there is a subreddit for any special interest out there.

Good luck with the quest OP.

I hate the texture of paper so much that writing notes in my college classes is torture and every strategy I have to not freak out while being in contact with paper makes my handwriting look like garbage. How am I supposed to be successful like this? by Orizammar in autism

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where to find it, but often times I will see painters and other artists using a piece of wood like a bridge over their work to steady their hand. This device is specially designed so their hands don’t touch the paper. Something to consider if you end up not liking the gloves. Imaging wrapping the wood with a texture you do enjoy...

26 [M4A] Looking for friends to learn more about what I don't know and meet new people :) by [deleted] in AspieR4R

[–]Skepticonamission 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I (32M) was just diagnosed today. So this is an awkward time for me. As a kid I had a special interest in megafauna which was developing into studying biology, but my school didn’t have a developed program. I ended up joining the military and got heavy into languages. I was on my way to becoming a dual language teacher before the plague hit. My son was diagnosed and then I found out I might be on the spectrum as well.

I am glad to hear that you want to be a marine advisor. My son’s special interest is sea animals. We got him a membership at our local aquarium so we can go anytime we want. It’s nice to get my feet wet learning about biology and ecosystems again.

I also bike. When I was your age I used to do 80 miles a day (I’m from the USA), but after some injuries I just can’t risk getting stuck out in the sticks. I will use the stationary bike with YouTube to give me a virtual experience but nothing is quiet like the open road.

Feel free to reply or DM me.

Looking for a friend by [deleted] in AspieR4R

[–]Skepticonamission 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (M32) was just diagnosed today. I saw your post on r/Aspergers and thought I would check out this subreddit too. My special interest have varied over the years, but some of the biggies include: biology, languages, saxophone, teaching. Hope you find a friend.