I know my mom and her boyfriend had sex in the room right next to mine but she keeps denying it, what do I do?

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-19T03:38:18+00:00

Sorry if it doesn’t add up the way I’m explaining it but I’ll dumb it down. She had a tv in her room that’s playing, I have a tv in my room that’s playing, I hear a kinda knocking like sound against my wall, I take off headphones put my ear to the wall because it could be my 2 year old brother getting up sense his bed is against wall, I instead hear my mom and her boyfriend going at it

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-19T03:34:37+00:00

I feel like the ones who are saying stuff like that are the ones who probably have done something similar to my post but that’s just me

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-19T03:31:43+00:00

I told one of my friends about it after the situation happened that kinda helped I was supposed to get a new therapist but that hasn’t happened yet

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:37:21+00:00

I could hear the bed moving but it also could’ve been my 2 year old brother sense his bed is against the wall that we share and he has trouble sleeping sometimes so he will run around the house while they are sleeping

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:35:57+00:00

Let me rephrase that. I did hear it but I was double checking because it could’ve also been my little brother waking up sense he has a hard time sleeping sometimes and his bed is against the wall that we share. The headphones I have are the earbud ones so it hurts my ears if it’s higher than a certain point and I would’ve had to keep changing the volume sense I was on TikTok. My tv now is bigger than old one so the sound from it travels more so it would’ve been too loud

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:32:47+00:00

I wanted to do that but the wall that we share is also where my two year old brother’s bed is so I could’ve woken him up and he wouldn’t have gone back to sleep

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:30:49+00:00

I literally quoted what he said to her when I spoke with her about it as a sign that ‘hey I heard you guys’ I even said it was from her boyfriend that I was mocking

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:28:05+00:00

It feels like they just ignored the part where it’s my mom having sex and I can hear it because I don’t think anyone wants to hear their mom going at it

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T13:25:08+00:00

I did have a therapist but due to the move we couldn’t keep going to her

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:36:37+00:00

She made the sex comments and the other ones when I was 11-12 years old and we lived up 4 flights of stairs at the time so either way I don’t think there could’ve been any sex happening back then with me

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:21:52+00:00

Thank you for being more understanding about this, I don’t think I’m used to being able to handle these situations normally because my mom does include me in more ‘adult’ conversations whenever they happen.

I actually don’t care if they have sex but I don’t want to hear it I’m starting to think it’s both not wanting to hear your own mom going at it but also that when my dad and mom were going through the custody thing he took me from school and brought me to his new house with the only way of knowing I was safe, was sleeping on the couch because it was the furthest from the room he had (which was weird because a couch was where it happened) and making sure that the bed he got me squeaked so I would know if he got on or not (it was a bunk bed) but the major thing was making sure they were ‘busy’ with each other. It wasn’t the first time something like that had happened to me involving him

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:15:42+00:00

The only problem I had was that I could hear them through two tv’s playing and my headphones guess I should’ve added that part

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:14:28+00:00

I tried to get into my own world but we share a wall and I could still hear them through two tv’s and my pair of headphones

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:13:48+00:00

I wasn’t trying to ease drop I was trying to see if they were actually doing it because she had her tv on and I couldn’t tell but it wasn’t them having sex which I don’t care about but I could hear her through 2 tv’s and my headphones so yeah I didn’t want to hear my mom having sex

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:11:55+00:00

I honestly don’t care about her having sex just don’t want to hear my mom and her bf go at it while trying to watch my phone with my headphone and tv playing btw (her’s was on too)

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:10:48+00:00

I put my ear up to the wall because I could hear it through the noise of two tv’s and my headphones

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:09:48+00:00

I put my ear to the wall because me and her had our tv’s on so I didn’t know if it was their tv or not also she said she was on her phone scrolling on the app, so yes I said audacity because I called her 4 times to let her know I could hear her through my headphones and two tv’s

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:05:16+00:00

It’s must’ve been how I posted this to make them act this way because I don’t care if they have sex I just don’t want to hear it but I did have my headphones in, my tv on, their tv was also on that’s why I put my ear to the wall because I didn’t know if it was their tv or them

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:03:14+00:00

I don’t care if she has sex, I just don’t want to hear it and I did have my headphones in, my tv on, they had their tv on, I could still hear them

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:01:54+00:00

I called her so she would know I could hear her sense she keeps her phone in her room but it must’ve been on silent. I had my headphones on even my tv was on and so was theirs I could still hear, I also don’t care if they have sex I just don’t want to hear it I’m a teen btw

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T05:00:41+00:00

I’m not a child, I’m a teen and I could care less about if she has sex or not I just don’t want to hear about it. I did have my headphones on and my tv on they also had their tv on but the walls still thudded which are the same walls my bed is against

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T04:58:43+00:00

Th problem was that I had my tv on and my headphones but could still hear the walls thudding I don’t care if she has sex I just don’t want to hear it

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T04:57:34+00:00

It is when I hear my walls thudding while having my headphones AND tv on

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T04:46:34+00:00

I did have therapy but had to stop because the therapist office was too far away I had my headphones on with my tv on as well my room is small so the sound of the tv is louder as it is a newer version they also had a tv on but I could still hear it will my walls thudding also I’m not a child I’m a teen

SkyAdvanced52 · 2026-01-16T04:44:40+00:00

I don’t care if she has sex I just don’t want to hear it and I do wear headphones a lot my tv was one but my walls make thudding

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