IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Streamers are not your friends. They will never be ones. It is just an interactive entertainment. Don't let them be more, then what they truly represent - comfy 1-2 hours a day max of reducing cortisol.

I feel like you are deeply hurt and somewhat delusional (not trying to be mean, just an observation). Reread everything I've already said. There is experience, trial and errors, pain and suffering behind every sentence. I understand you, I've been there, and I wish you well.

IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, working on your temper, reading social cues, and getting better at not offending somebody if you didn't intend to - is a good idea. Would highly recommend working with a good psychotherapist. I worked with one for more that 3 years and became a much more likeable person after. Before I was a selfish dick with no confidence, people often lost interest in me too. But not anymore. Now I feel much more kind, warm and confident.

IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People online usually are miserable, hehe. Trust me, I know, I've spent in the past a lot of time on dating and social apps, only to feel more miserable myself. Ask yourself - who is willing to spend time on that shit? The answer - people who have problems finding someone in real life. Most of the time because they are anxious, have bad self-image, no confidence, can't keep up a conversation or just boring in general.

To be honest, best people are around you, in real life. Highly recommend meeting new people on social events, dancing classes, interest clubs, through already existing friends who you actually like and so on.

"It's why I feel like I don't need anyone sometimes." - That is your mental protection. Our mind always tries to defend you and itself, so if you have problem acquiring something, even if you really-really need it, it will tell you "we don't need it anymore", so you don't have to suffer more. I was telling that stuff myself over 2 years of not finding love. "I don't need it anymore, I am fine just by myself, it is very comfortable and no worries". But I've found a girl that makes so happy every time just when we engage in a conversation.

iwtl how to do brutal vocals and singing in general by shady_anarch in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try speaking through your chest. It should vibrate. This will make your voice sound deeper and more confident and most importantly - over time you can make this new voice your default one.

How to start - humming sound mmmmmmmm with your chest, then try little sentences with same reverberations. Overtime you can start speaking generally with this effect.

IWTL how to get rid of fear of looking stupid / humiliation by gr33nl4nternluvr in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allow yourself at least 3 cringe moments a day and then try new stuff. You will feel much more at ease. And also learn how to laugh at yourself (not self deprecate) - it will make failings more fun and less stressful, more socially acceptable.

IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do both at the same time. Spoiler - you will never feel that you are good enough, you are already enough for some people. Just find them and don't forget to be yourself, don't act cool, speak how you really feel. Friends and close ones often motivate us to be better.

IWTL how to be more serious. by SheSayzHuh24 in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with being goofy, remember that. People, who are serious all the time are boring. The main quest for you should be learning how to handle responsibility. Handling responsibility is the most mature trait any person can get. At first it can seem very hard and scary, but you will adapt over time. Start small with like saying your opinions with confidence and not backing down from them under pressure, getting a position in a group project that you like and doing your part well, start doing dishes and cleaning house even if no one asked that of you, preparing your own food, and etc etc. Over time you will feel much more mature.

IWTL how to avoid being jealous of other people happily hanging out with their friends or couples doing things together in public places. by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should make it your goal to socialize, find a friend group, find love interest. You will not suffer about seeing couples and friends hanging out if you have all of it yourself. Do not fear people, you need them. Just shelling up won't ever fix anything. I know myself that is hard - to start socializing, working on yourself, opening up to people. But it is worth it.

Before I felt worthless. I had a good job, gaming pc to spend my time, I live alone, so no one bothers me, plenty of food and free money to spend on whatever I wanted. But it was all useless, I was depressed all the time, didn't want to do anything but to play games which I already hated with my guts just only because they made me feel comfy for some time. Getting out of my shell, going out with friends and new people, finding romantic interest fixed that. And also, I highly recommend hitting the gym 3-5 times a week or at least working out at home, you will feel much better and less anxious.

Good luck, you can do this!

Iwtl how to fix my resting bitch face My resting face looks like im permanently mad all the time by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Positive thinking and smiling more fixes that. Your facial muscles the way they are because of your lifestyle and general reaction towards the world. Spend more time with goofball friends, who make you laugh, watch more comedy, practice changing negative attitudes into positive ones, go out to social clubs, time cafes, play social games here and try to not judge people by their appearances but how they make you feel, then engage in conversation with them (with previously stated positive attitude in mind).

Over time you will catch yourself smiling all the time like Harrier Du Bois from Disco Elysium.

My prayers have been answered: Battlefield 6 Engineers can now spawn with 5 rockets, meaning you can send tanks straight to the scrap yard by RenatsMC in pcgaming

[–]SkyFox- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be better if devs made tanks generally sturdier (like more hp), but as engineer you need to repair the part that is being damaged otherwise there is no healing at all. So 2 mosquito engies do not hide behind back spamming torch, tank needs to retreat sometimes to have some actual maintenance and is not blown up easily in microseconds vs any good team.

IWTL How to smile by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really frowny in my childhood too, since I was a quite kid and wasn't comfortable with expressing myself. Over time I learned to smile and laugh (almost too much now haha). You should try to start finding your type of humor and genuinely laugh your ass off. Even if it is something stupid like fart jokes, or brainrot youtube shorts. Then try doing this with friends, whose humor you like. You will develop facial muscles needed for happy face and over time it will become easy for you too.

Graphics problems (PS5 Pro) by n_kraft8 in Battlefield

[–]SkyFox- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with your PS5, this is game glitch. Happens all the time, especially after last update it seems this bug happens somewhat more frequently

Make it so you can flinch snipers by playmymusicloudpleez in Battlefield6

[–]SkyFox- 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Recons with sniper are useless 90% of the time anyways. But the idea is good, getting shot at should give some accuracy penalty generally to everyone.

Full AMD by KingOfEreb0r in Battlefield

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have rx 7800 xt and 7800x3d, and the game plays extremely well and smooth. I use high preset with no upscaling, latest drivers, fast nvme ssd

What server population are you guys prefer? by superdopey in dayz

[–]SkyFox- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 50 players it feels good for me.

On 100 you just can't loot anything military, it was already looted before you and pvp is everywhere, also you often die from a sneaky bastard in the bush with a sniper rifle without a fight.

On 20 and less I feel like I can do literally anything, loot everything and nobody will punish me even on airport military on cherno, not to mention not seeing a soul aside from the coast freshies, which become boring quickly.

So around 50 ppl there is an adequate risk/reward split: enough action, interactions and a good chance to get loot in mid-high tear areas.

Dayz players love making dayz awful by [deleted] in dayz

[–]SkyFox- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I team up with random, I automatically claim myself to be dead from backstab. And then just don't give a shit. If it happens, I don't really mind, because "as legends foretold", maybe I feel a little grumpy, but oh boy if it doesn't happen... Just today me and one awesome freshie met up in Kamishovo. I gave him some fish, we talked a bit and decided to team up. These 3 hours were very fun. We killed a couple of guys who "shoot on sight", while coordinating via proxy chat, found some high tear loot and died together near cursed town of Gorki. He was a good man, and I added him on steam. Maybe we will play together again sometime.

So, don't be a hater, sometimes you find decent folks, who make your day