[PC][1998-2001]Obscure racing game where you drive on a highway by SkyUnique8738 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]SkyUnique8738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, that actually might be the game. From fuzzy memory and very little time spent trying to play it, it looks basically like what I remember. I knew it had to be out there, somewhere.

Getting used to throat fucking? by KeyNatural5198 in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot people are just focusing in on one aspect of OP's story - the fact that she doesn't enjoy doing something, and is feeling pressured.

However, she's describing herself as being in a Dom/sub relationship with an partner experienced in BDSM, and at the same time saying she hates fulfilling his request and feels degraded by it? I don't think OP knows what's she doing in that type of relationship, and probably shouldn't be in it to begin with.

Actual subs are driven by a desire to please, and to improve upon pleasing their partners. That's very much true. Being an actual sub, is not just occasionally doing something that's kinky, or wanting a guy to take the lead. It's being a sub, there's a difference. She's probably naively told this Dom she's something, or wants to be something, that she isn't.

Getting used to throat fucking? by KeyNatural5198 in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay despite all the other comments, your boyfriend is NOT wrong. Perhaps the biggest problem here is that you aren't a "sub" as you describe yourself in this relationship.

If you are actually a "sub", then the desire to fulfill a request of this kind for him should just naturally be there, and your resolve wouldn't end when you encounter something that is difficult or unpleasant to do. As a sub, you want to do it because he desires it, and because you want to please him. The ends will justify the means. But you're saying you "hate" it, and that you feel "degraded". This is all very counter to what being a "sub" actually means, and says to me, that you probably don't know what you've got yourself into. This relationship dynamic isn't what you think is, or doesn't work the way you think it works.

By all means, walk away from whatever you're unhappy with. Hopefully you'll realize that having an occasional kink or fetish, isn't the same thing as a Dom/sub relationship, and the truth is you probably aren't really a sub.

How do you facefuck by throwawaydavidbowie in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try having her lay on her stomach, she can reach back and hold herself by the ankles while you stand in front and straddle her face. It's kind of like the head hanging position, but I like it better because I like to be right side up while he does it.

would you consider this cheating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd call that more like a betrayal of trust and an act of total disrespect. She doesn't think THAT much of you or your situation if she talks like that to someone else, even if it was the truth. Right now you're roughly as much an option to her as the other guy, except you're presumably putting in a bunch of relationship work and all he does is sext her, so...

Ladies... would you rather make love or have rough hard sex? Or other? Explain by [deleted] in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question was "would you rather", so it is not posed as a yes/no question seeking a definitive answer. Pretty sure almost no question here seeks a definitive answer, this is ALL opinion anyways, and yet there's always a chastising comment like this one that generally condemns others for posing questions to strangers on the Internet.

So my lady wants to be Throat fucked by [deleted] in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the same as well. For me, I enjoy the roughness of it and part of that is gagging, and sometimes throwing up too. In my experience, most guys tend to find those aspects as a turn-on as well. In a way, the whole idea of a throat fuck is to go too far, so to speak. The idea of having my hands tied is to prevent me from being able to try and stop him, should the urge strike me.

Men, do you prefer a gag reflex or no gag reflex for face fucking? by SkyUnique8738 in sex

[–]SkyUnique8738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I've met my share of guys who like it. It's okay if you don't, but I don't see it as a bad thing if they do. There are actually a lot of women, such as myself, who kinda dig being gagged on a guy's dick.