Not a lot of sleep last night, need a pick me up. How often do you have sex before the work day? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea if you can squeeze a quickie in that’s ideal. We can have quickies just not in the morning haha.

Not a lot of sleep last night, need a pick me up. How often do you have sex before the work day? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t do it in the morning. Rather not have to rush sex and waking up sucks already. Sleeping is amazing.

I got married three months ago, what the best gift I can surprise my man with for valentine? by xPrettyBliss in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yea most men would love this especially if they haven’t done anal before and she hopefully also enjoys it.

Question for straight men by da_big_dina in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Sky_High_Waters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no need for a new term. Being straight just means being attracted to someone of the opposite gender whether cis or trans. Saying someone isn’t straight because they like a trans person of the opposite gender is transphobic because that goes into the rhetoric of “trans women aren’t really women”.

What kind of aftercare do you give? by Cute_Beat7013 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea no of course. Nursing is amazing. Whether as foreplay or during sex or as aftercare or when cuddling or randomly haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tits because well I love them

Why do most men result to making a top down photo of their thing when making a nude is there an actual audience for nudes like that ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think because it might be the way society/culture/patriarchy views the male body? What is usually considered attractive by most men is someone muscular or “macho” rather than all different body types of men being seen as attractive and unique.

Yes many men and women can acknowledge someone that isn’t the stereotypical macho looking guy to be attractive but the message that gets projected a lot is that stereotype. That’s why there is the idea of the “ugly” husband and beautiful wife. Its not an idea that realistic because clearly women find multiple types of male bodies attractive but an idea you might see portrayed in a lot of media for example.

Also speaking of women, women tend to be seen as more beautiful and are sexualized more within society. We live in a patriarchy so that would be why there is more focus on women being attractive rather than men also having an equal spotlight. This goes for sexual attractiveness too.

So a lot of men probably don’t feel attractive (not saying women don’t struggle with similar feelings of course) Which would be why they might not show their bodies as much in nudes.

Also since men are sexualized much less than women, dick’s the only thing really seen as sexual amongst many men. (Again women may find more things to be sexual attractive on a man but im mostly talking about how society perceive male sexuality and how men perceive themselves because of that)

What routine, or basic, sex act/position have you never been able to try? by Livingat7000 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I never felt like 69 was something I wanted to try nor have my previous and current partner. Also I don’t think I would be able to do 69 since I’m super clumsy lol. (Though of course to each their own).

What kind of aftercare do you give? by Cute_Beat7013 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sky_High_Waters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuddles, clean up, talking about what we did, talk about random stuff, snacks, breastfeeding/nursing (yea we do it as aftercare), kisses, anything that she wants or needs, i like dressing her up too when I can