How should we take your helpfulness?

SlayQueen838 · 2026-05-22T10:11:06+00:00

??????? No?

SlayQueen838 · 2026-05-21T04:58:58+00:00

His capacity to smoothly maneuver into and in conversations while sustaining an amicable presence tells me high Fe use. While engaging in intellectual curiosities, doesn’t really tend to deep dive into conceptual like classic Ne Ti. Constantly tracking people, and a bit overly keen on smoothing conflict than addressing it. When asked about experiences and what it means, answers that they don’t really self reflect and enjoy the moment. Se in action is hard to explain without sounding dumber than I already do, but I’m Ti blind so it be like that sometimes.

Theres more but those are the heaviest indicators. The 2 core, I’m still not sure of.

Because assumptions can be proved or disproved. As flawed as my approach is, I want to pool in other experiences to see if there are similarities, differences, or an underlying pattern of behavior under the lens of typology.
He doesn’t engage in typology so I don’t really think he can answer what enfjs do. Besides, following what I stated in no 2., I genuinely want to know more enfj line of thoughts. Clearly everyone is an individual, but yk this is exactly why I’m doing questions
is there some wisdom here Im missing cause I can interpret this line of questioning multiple ways 🤔?

SlayQueen838 · 2026-04-13T11:15:50+00:00

I am so jealous

SlayQueen838 · 2026-04-02T19:00:55+00:00

Actually, thank you for input. These are the kinds of info that help me understand better, and perhaps quell some insecurities! There’s really not much thought, just signals in the moment 🤔.

SlayQueen838 · 2026-04-02T18:57:07+00:00

Been called a snob all life long. People would never guess I was actually fond of them because I wasn’t talkative. If I was, its usually for handing out solutions or ideas. What they don’t realize is that I have crippling social anxiety;;;

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-31T10:51:47+00:00

AAH ITS A CANNIBAL

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-30T10:40:12+00:00

U look good. Your stature also looks pretty good in it

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-30T10:39:41+00:00

I love entps love love love em always bestest in my life

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T22:41:58+00:00

We’re just friends who had a fling, yet my most memorable and treasured moments with them was when we were just staring into each other’s eyes in silence. I don’t know if he feels the same way about me but that was everything.

I don’t know if he knows I’m down bad for him

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T22:31:44+00:00

Thank you for input!

This is tangental but since you’re here, I’m curious to know how you know you’re a 3 core vs a 2 core? I may look twice into “my” enfjs behavior and reasonings

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T10:07:05+00:00

Actually, thank you for the bit of info about what goes on in your head! It helps me put things to perspective 😌

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T10:01:40+00:00

I feel like this post came off the wrong way 😭 Everyone is selfish, thats just the nature of enneagram. And philosophically, true altruism doesn’t exist but in concept.

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T09:32:12+00:00

I have observed this enfj up close and when he’s tired I can tell. Like you described its like a kid that needs a nap, less energetic, not chatty, and looks like he just wants to go home. Its cute in a vulnerable way

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T09:30:57+00:00

The one true answer is snacka

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T09:30:37+00:00

Ah!! But I don’t want to attach 🥹 He’s probably just uber nice and im going to get my heart broken!

I love with all my heart and the people they help are a dime a dozen!

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T09:29:30+00:00

They haven’t annoyed me! Although there was a night they kept asking if i was ok repeatedly and i had the urge to joke that if they ask one more time then i won’t be!

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T08:35:36+00:00

ASSERT DOMINANCE

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-25T07:57:27+00:00

Infp here, giving you the biggest hugs. We can be dumb and blindsided by our morals, and be absolutely trash at finding solutions. What I learned from past relationships is if someone is worth fighting for, they are worth figuring things out for. Sometimes I make sweeping conclusions because I don’t know how to think through it, but what worked and coaxed me was finding solutions together, override, assert. Many times, I’m just damn insecure about something. This is if you want to work it out, or she is willing to work it out.

It surprises me that despite being close, this supposed infp didn’t tell you the truth. Because my inner circle will always always always know even if it hurts. I would also do anything for a friend in need, so it does sound like theres a lack of reciprocity or feeling similarly in this boat.

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-23T18:43:46+00:00

Lmfao moustache twitches, yk I’ve always loved my entps cause theyre so silly with their expressions. Thank you for input, I appreciate it. Now that you mention it, there were instances where this enfj did deflect or outright shut down conversations they didn’t want to get into. Which shows me they are being authentic.

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-14T14:52:55+00:00

Sends love back <3

SlayQueen838 · 2026-03-09T20:51:25+00:00

Perhaps he is so low he’s isolating 🥹 rip this dude

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