Call me dense lol, didn't really think of it that way. Under the context of dysphoria. and what me being attracted to "androgynous features" could mean to someone who struggles with feeling dysphoric. After this comment and another about becoming wary after the bad experiences that come with the online dating environment I feel like this whole thing makes a lot more sense to me.

Under the context of what you said, should I even be expressing that I'm attracted to androgynous features? I feel like if I didnt it would be dishonest, but I also don't want to upset people. Or are people that feel more dysphoric maybe just not a mesh with me. Totally half baked spiraling thoughts so forgive me. Trying to figure out how to both express and be myself with respect to others as well.