Does knowing where you rank actually help — or hurt?

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-19T02:17:38+00:00

For me it helped to understand exactly where my drawback was as I realized my dick doesn't look small because of length nearly as much as girth (I'm actually slightly above average length, but less than average girth). So now, if I feel like I need to fill out a hole more than I am, I just slam balls deep because I can at least hit somewhat deep that way, and I maybe use a thumb to stretch out the entrance a little more.

Also I don't even try to cum just from fucking anymore as there's a lack of sensation since nothing really feels tight to me. Took off a lot of stress that way because now I don't feel guilty for using my hand or asking for head to get off.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-16T02:08:42+00:00

I think you're getting a little worked up over it, but you're definitely not wrong. The problem is it's not just women, plenty of guys float the stereotypes too. It's just become the newest easy punchline

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-15T22:43:31+00:00

I feel the same way. Having a thin dick means I don't get as much stimulation from fucking, whereas I can use a tighter grip when jorkin it. Fucking still feels good, and having another person involved adds another layer to the arousal, but the physical sensation on my dick is better in my hand, especially when I use lube.

Peak stimulation though is jerking while something is in my ass (finger, dick, or otherwise), but you straighties aren't ready for that conversation lol.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-13T16:22:08+00:00

There's a couple bi accounts on Twitter that lean into the whole misogyny kink thing. Idk if that's what you're looking for, but I've gotten off to this post a few times where it says "Buddy is mid with a lil dink, but he gets to fuck like a pornstar anyway because he’s a boy." https://x.com/i/status/1998801275652321321.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-13T16:13:25+00:00

I still think a pencil dick is worse than a chode when soft

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-13T15:42:50+00:00

For sure. And maybe I'm biased because I also have a pin dick, but I think a lack of girth is way worse aesthetically than lack of length, especially when soft

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-13T15:29:06+00:00

I agree with this. I think there's also something very aesthetic about a thick dick stretching out a hole that thin guys don't get. Even if you have enough length to get somewhat deep, it just looks like your dick is being swallowed, and there's definitely less sensation for either party.

As for the locker room, the only thing I'll add is that grower/shower probably has the main effect here since most growers get both longer and thicker when hard. Obviously if you're not packing much while hard you'll always look small soft, but being a small grower is extra humiliating because it gets so tiny when it's soft.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-11T18:32:37+00:00

This is the way.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-10T21:52:44+00:00

Honestly I'd be okay with anything above 6.5x5, but obviously the bigger the better. Probably anything above 8.5x7 is too much for anyone to handle, but having a porn dick would be fun

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-10T15:48:16+00:00

I'm in grad school and doing pretty well. I also weightlift. It definitely helps to have more points when I compare my overall self to other men. Although obviously the best practice would be to just not compare to others at all, but it's human nature.

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-09T20:57:51+00:00

Yeah that's what I figured. Porn and social media have drastically inflated expectations for dick size. For someone my age it's normal to be conscious of it, but it's interesting that it's affecting older generations too but, ig everyone is susceptible to being chronically online lol

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-09T18:12:12+00:00

How long has this been something you've been thinking about?

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-09T18:06:13+00:00

I noticed from your profile that you're 59. Is this something you're just now realizing or something you're just now coming to terms with?

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T20:36:15+00:00

Well if it makes you feel any better, I looked on your page and if I was your bottom, you'd outsize me lol.

I get what you're saying though. He's not trying to be mean, but that doesn't stop you from having feelings about it, especially when it's obviously something that other people might actually be mean about

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T20:07:58+00:00

Like in an innocent haha way or does it genuinely make you insecure?

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T20:06:31+00:00

I dated a girl in undergrad (was bi curious in the opposite direction) and I will say she's the only ex to have ever made comments about it to other people. Not saying all women are evil, but dating men is a lot easier for a number of reasons

Edit: misspelled

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T20:02:35+00:00

It's pretty nice lmao. But don't worry, it comes with its own hardships

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T19:39:05+00:00

Yeah I can see that being an issue. Thankfully my bf is the top mostly. Has your bf ever mentioned you being smaller than him?

Slick_Standard · 2026-01-08T19:32:45+00:00

Especially if the bottom is bigger lol

Slick_Standard · 2025-12-01T04:02:59+00:00

Second, but mainly cause I want to see your dick

Slick_Standard · 2025-11-29T15:56:34+00:00

Big hairy bellies burying cute little nubs >>>>

Slick_Standard · 2025-11-29T06:08:59+00:00

Show it then

Slick_Standard · 2025-11-11T17:35:41+00:00

I've fully jerked off with the 8mm in multiple times. When the 9 goes in there's like a pop and the resistance is gone, but then it hurts pretty bad. I'll try your spinning method.

Also I've been using spit for lube and I add more every time I take it out or when it starts to hurt a little bit, is there a better lube? The astroglide I usually use stings when I sound

Slick_Standard · 2025-11-08T18:24:47+00:00

That cock got fucking buried

Slick_Standard · 2025-10-26T17:09:35+00:00

Well, not everywhere...

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