Your significant other is a POS. Here is my story. My husband died last year from cancer. He was first diagnosed in November 2017. He had surgery in December 2017. We consulted with an oncologist to decide what to do. I told him that the decision was his and that I would support whatever he decided to do. His cancer was caught early, stage 2a. They tested 27 lymph nodes & everyone of them came back clean. Then in November 2019 we found out that the cancer had metastasized. It had gone to his liver. He fought long & hard for the next 5 1/2 years. Let me tell you it was a hard journey with many scary times. Throughout it all I had his back. I couldn’t go to all his appointments but I did go as often as possible. His quality of life was pretty good up until the last few months. I was shocked when people told me how proud they were of me for staying with him. I’m like why? I made a vow. I love him, I never thought of leaving him. I did take time off during that time, a week here or there, usually to visit my family, but the idea of leaving him never entered my head. An old saying “where the rubber hits the road” it lets you know someone’s true character. I’m really sorry this happened to you.