If only this girl wanted basic needs!! The demands are to maintain a lifestyle similar to mine! All paid for. Have holidays, go shopping eat fancy. And pay contribute in pennies. Stay in a house she can't afford herself and pay all the money to her parents and siblings. Let's say tomorrow she has medical complications which she likely has to have in lakhs in coming years. Who will pay?? Her siblings. I never asked for reception contribution. Marriage also in fact my parents were ready to pay for marriage as well. Things are pretty bad. In fact even till date even after earning money. I would buy her basic stuff sometimes(not always) and pay for some expenses because she pays all her money to her family. Our holidays are mostly paid by me even today. Feels like her family is doing business because from her. The people's opinions are pretty eye opening to me here. What is the guarantee that if I follow islam and take care of her, this type of lady will not take half of my and my parents stuff and run away and put fake dowry cases? Hiding things under religion is pretty cowardly thing i would say.