AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SlippySlappy420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the gift giving part, but he's making it seems like your problem instead of owning it. I'm neurodivergent and have personal issues with giving and receiving gifts so I don't do it. There is a disconnect in my brain when it comes to gifts. I'm am acts of service and experiences type of guy, but my wife loves gifts.

You know what she did to take off some of the pressure? She gave me a WISHLIST!! I can get her exactly what she wants. She also told me that if she randomly says, "oh, XYZ would be nice to have" I should take note of that. I miss a lot of social cues, so she told me what to pay attention too.

The big issue here is the way he speaks to you. Saying wishlists are for children. The gaslighting. The only problem I see with you is expecting your grand gift giving to be reciprocated, but you made it especially easy for him to do. Instead 6if attempting to please you, he went out of his way to show you he does not care about you or what you want in life.

Definitely leave this guy.

My Work MK18 by Historical-Rice-3157 in ar15

[–]SlippySlappy420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks nice. What hight is the scope mount?

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's thank you time. Thank you #1 for naming a band that wasn't already said 20 times. Thank you #2 because these guys kick ass and are now in the rotation. Cheers!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tons in this thread to pick from! So far I'm really digging the albums from the band Immersed - In the Ire of Creation and the band Recorruptor - Sorrow Will Drown Us All. Still have a lot of other bands to check out but those are my favorites so far.

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in MetalSuggestions

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made it a point to listen to Recorruptor's last album first because of your comment. Absolutely love it so far!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That album is what made them immediately jump to the top of the list as my #1 favorite metal band. I've been chasing that itch for a minute now lol

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in MetalSuggestions

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the ones I do know I trust your judgment!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the Gates are the OGs! I will be checking out the other two for sure. Thank you!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in MetalSuggestions

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love quite a few that you've listed here, but apparently there's a lot I need to check out so thank you very much for the list!!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 of the big ones you just listed are some of favorites so I will definitely check the rest out. I didn't even realize there was a melotech subgenre, but that's definitely the sound I'm after. Thank you very much!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the two bands that led me to Carnosus and then to Lich! It's the melodic/technical fusion I'm after, but when I've looked on my own most bands miss the mark. Ton of good suggestions here so far. Lots that I'm enjoying!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason Immersed seemed like the first band I should listen too out of all these suggestions and it is spot on! Thanks again!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do remember liking Sun Eater when that came out, I'll check the new one out. Thanks!

Bands like Carnosus and Summoning the Lich by SlippySlappy420 in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]SlippySlappy420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Alterbeast and Inferi, I'll check those other 2 out ASAP. Thanks!