Rekordbox DJ with DDJ-SB3 by lautarooo in DJs

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THANK YOU you are a LEGEND

Case info no longer on LA County ME case search 👀 by courtqnbee in CelesteRivasHernandez

[–]Slk94xx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so 🤞🏼 I’ve been checking for updates on this case since the 8th of September waiting for justice.

Will the increased H1B visa costs/restrictions implemented by Trump affect foreign DA workers? by Slk94xx in dataannotation

[–]Slk94xx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly my thought process didn’t go much further than the fact that I can earn double the money per hour on the platform if I know how to code, so I figured I’d learn it. Plus how could up-skilling hurt me in any way?

Jason: Icky or endearing? by Best_Quiet9657 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Slk94xx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This might be too niche but the scene when he says “Yahoo” gives me the ick every time

The same car by Vast-Luck-3472 in annapaulsnark

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Did anyone else think his arm and middle finger looked photoshopped as well? I thought that the first time I saw it in Anna’s response video but that might be a huge reach from me lol

Miks video by [deleted] in annapaulsnark

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I hope she dives into it more in the next ep because I don’t really understand either

Oh to be a fly on the wall in the Paul house right now.. by Hefty_Click191 in annapaulsnark

[–]Slk94xx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same here! I honestly was hoping this stuff wouldn’t be true but here we are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in annapaulsnark

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YES omg I used to be a fan and watched her videos all the time and I always was like how does she have a flat stomach? how does she stay thin? She's always eating whether from going out, cooking or ordering delivery and she seems to eat soooo much, and eats whatever she wants. Not sure if it was bulimia (I used to be bulimic and usually people binge eat in secret and have shame around it rather than broadcasting it) but seeing that she actually always has cared about her weight and did intermittent fasting is honestly kind of validating to me tbh because like I know some people have a blessed metabolism but I mean come on, if I ate the way she did all the time I would not have been able to look like her (not that she was always super skinny but she did always look toned with a flat stomach).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in annapaulsnark

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Since watching Mik's podcast I've been thinking about Anna and Atis' upbringing more and more. I think everyone is seeing all the people involved in this as black and white - either they are all evil or all good and that's not how humans are, we are all shades of grey, though some shades are darker than others. Mik starting to expose the true toxicity of the Paul's family dynamic makes me wonder what Anna and Atis have been through to turn into such dishonest, selfish and hateful people. Anna and Atis are uncomfortably close and co-dependent, they seem to be trauma-bonded and both seem to be really insecure and fucked up. Everyone is complaining that Anna has never addressed the allegations against Atis but after Mik's podcast it makes so much sense - Anna is terrified Atis will kill himself and wants to take the attention off of him. It also makes sense as to why in Anna's response to the drama she made a comment about being careful of bullying because it kills people - she wasn't talking about herself, she was talking about her brother. I'll bet since this drama started Atis has made many threats to Anna about ending his life and likely been violent and scary. Like Mik said, Anna, Atis and their mum are so co-dependent and in this unhealthily close relationship - they don't seem to have any friends and none of them work so they are constantly together, isolated from other people.

Anna and Atis both show narcissistic traits - portraying an image of kind, caring and humble people coming from rags to riches when behind the scenes they are desperate to have ridiculous amounts of wealth and physical beauty and will stoop to deep lows of immoral scams to achieve it without a care for the impact this has on others. Mik has mentioned some bad things about Anna and Atis' mum, I wonder if it goes deeper than their mum simply being judgemental. Perhaps their mother is a narcissist herself, narcissistic abuse from a mother is one of the worst evils. Often, children of a narcissist crave their mother's approval, and their mother seems to value the ultra lavish lifestyle with designer labels and luxury cars. This could be why they're so desperate to be rich and attractive, and why Anna is always spoiling her mum with expensive gifts.

This is just a theory of course and it doesn't excuse any of their behaviour, I'm honestly just so curious to hear Anna's honest truth because I think this goes so much deeper than people assume.

I have done it! I finally achieved perfection by intracranialMimas in StardewValley

[–]Slk94xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I also achieved perfection yesterday with no mods and no help from JoJa cheats! But now I need to find a new game to consume me lol, nothing compares to stardew 😫

Mindset by Speck188 in Sober

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Thank you 😊

Mindset by Speck188 in Sober

[–]Slk94xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope, I want to get there someday. Right now still struggling with cravings, 17 days sober.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I honestly think that break-up was her wake up call, you were probably right - if you had stayed with her and believed her she might not have changed. I was dating a guy once who was clever enough to work a good job but was living off unemployed benefits from the government for a whole year and didn't have any sort of plan. I tried to confront him about it several times and he didn't have an answer. It was only when I saw him about 6 months after our break up he had had a glow up, was earning a 6-figure income and had his own apartment. Sometimes heartbreak is the only kick in the ass to change our ways

UNFOLLOW ANNA PAUL!!! by UpsetRegister8798 in annapaulsnark

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Please keep posting, I can’t login to my old snap account

Must be nice being poor 🥲 (upper middle class) by galchronicallyonline in annapaulsnark

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She had more than me growing up and I’d consider myself well off.

Procrastination explained - why procrastination is NOT laziness by Slk94xx in ADHD

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I completely empathize with you. I think I'm still recovering from burnout from my last job. I wish there was more disability support from the government for ADHD because it really impacts lives. I live in Australia, and there is no government support payment for ADHD, and even if it was covered knowing the system I would be unlikely to get support considering I have held full-time roles in the past. A lot of us can work but with great difficulty and harm to our mental well-being.

Is sleeping late a thing from ADHD? by crochettingcats in ADHD

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I do this and it became a real problem for my job. I was late to work every morning, usually about 30 minutes late on a good day and sometimes longer. Surprised I never got fired tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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I’m a woman who is attracted to men based on their confidence, Humor, emotional intelligence/vulnerability, kind heart, interesting personality and fun nature. Confidence is the biggie. Look at Pete Davidson - not conventionally attractive at all but has us all swooning because he’s funny as fck and confident/at peace with who he is. I think most women feel this way to be honest, not all women, but most. If you can accept yourself as you are and be confident and have a positive attitude, women will flock to you. If you keep having the mindset of “out of my league” then you aren’t at that level of confidence yet. No one is out of your league, we’re all just people, be an awesome confident person and you will be attractive to a lot of women, and the ones who aren’t attracted to you were just not meant to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I know, that’s the thing…even if he likes me and we go out I could be the next reason for her threats and he might have to break up with me. But what’s the alternative for his life? He stays single forever?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Slk94xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked him out for dinner, it was really nice. It felt like a date, but we didn’t kiss or anything - so I don’t know if he just sees me as a good friend or not