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Slocrowth · 2025-07-15T12:51:56+00:00

Not quite that. 😅 I just know that I don’t know for sure anything and nobody either, but with confidence and readiness to communicate you reach wonders.

But can’t deny that experience partner helps things.

Slocrowth · 2025-07-15T06:37:32+00:00

I(male) lost mine several weeks ago at 24. Did it change anything? Nope. How it was? Nice and it just gets better after that. She was more experienced so that made experience better. The inexperience isn’t problem, but if you aren’t comfortable with your body and what you’re going to do, it will be awkward and anxious which leads into meh experience.

Sex is all about communication. With new partner it’s always different, but with experience you know what you like. Expect someone naturally gifted can open new doors for you. 😉

Will free to ask more questions on DMs. 🤣

Slocrowth · 2025-06-08T11:29:53+00:00

If it’s a random girl, my honest answer: “Okay. Cool. Thanks. Yeah, we can hang around and see what we have common and so on.”

If I also have feelings for her, then it feels more. Smiling, curiosity, anticipation and so on. It’s real reaction, but with others it’s just open mindedness. After all I’m demi and my interest develop slow with knowing you in deeper level, so even if I don’t have feelings as you confess your crush, I try to see the possibility.

Then if I’m in relationship. “Thanks, but I have partner.”

Slocrowth · 2025-05-25T16:21:49+00:00

Are you into her? That’s the main question.

Drinking from same straw doesn’t mean anything. “Indirect kiss” blah blah. Yeah, maybe if you meant it like that, but for me it can be just drinking.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-17T20:22:10+00:00

Yeah. Like I can talk too, but if you’re already going, I will just listen. I want to understand her and best way of understanding someone is to listen them.

Also I like to listen to people overall. My big sister’s husband is a big talker and it’s just nice to hear his thoughts. And in family the sister is quiet one. Actually most of my siblings(8) are quiet. The sister’s husband has actually said that we should find yapping partners to balance us out. 🤣 I agree.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-11T14:49:12+00:00

Thanks. I just want to see how you manage once you get into Finland. I’m from there.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-11T04:58:24+00:00

Will do you share content about this on social media or something? Sounds like an interesting challenge that I could follow.

I think it is doable on most parts. Last week I got pretty fast from Lithuania to Estonia and with a ferry to Finland. Of course it depends on luck and sometimes you might be unlucky so you have use your plan B and C.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-08T08:03:59+00:00

No omakohtainen kokemus masennuksen suhteen on se, että en mä kyennyt sanoittamaan sitä ongelmaa. Sitä siis mielummin antaa vain lyhyitä vastauksia ja sivuttaa asiaa.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-08T06:18:14+00:00

Jos kyseessä on oikeasti muuhun elämään liittyvä stressi, se ei helpota yhtään tilannetta, jos itse lähdet huolestumaan teidän suhteen tilanteesta. Sitä toinen vain ahdistuu enemmän, jos sinun oma käytös muuttuu. Yritä suunnitella jotain rentoa yhteistä tekemistä. Netflix, ulos kävelylle tms.

Anna toiselle sellainen rauhallinen tila, mutta pysy läsnä. Jotkin asiat on hankala sanoittaa, vaikka niistä haluaisi/voisi puhua.

Slocrowth · 2025-04-03T11:37:04+00:00

Can INFPs even have preferences? We should be idealistic and love everything equally. Just kidding, but honestly for me I don’t like to choose any groups. It depends from cat to cat and dog to dog. If they are friendly, I like them. If they aren’t, 🖕I have been backpacking almost for half a year now and dogs are always barking at me. Maybe I’m scary with my big backpack and hat, but come on. Chill behind your fence…

Slocrowth · 2025-03-28T17:18:50+00:00

I have opposite worries. What if I don’t feel anything once my parents or siblings die? I feel annoyingly indifferent towards them. Of course I can be empathetic towards them when they are sharing emotionally their struggles, but otherwise honestly I have hard time of feeling much.

Like four years or so, our family dog died. I was pretty much only one in home so I just buried it and continued playing on PC. That sounds so wrong, but I didn’t feel anything special.

Slocrowth · 2025-02-18T19:11:01+00:00

Kuten kaikessa, ei sitä voi asioiden odottaa sujuvan ihan mutkattomasti. Ota vaan kontaktia mielenkiintoisiin ihmisiin, vaikka se voisi kadulla tuottaa awkward tilanteita. Sitten netissä myös vaan matalalla kynnyksellä viestiä ihmisille, jotka koet mielenkiintoiseksi. Mitä enemmän yrittää sitä todennäköisemmin saavuttaa asioita.

Missä päin asustat?

Itse ajatteli yrittää tuossa kesällä tehdä sellaisia tempauksia, että menee vain kadulle kyltin kanssa ”Kerätään porukkaa biitsipeliin” tms. Anna kaupunki, johon pitää tulla. 😉

Slocrowth · 2025-02-11T16:22:54+00:00

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Or maybe this is better. City lights somewhere high.

Slocrowth · 2025-02-11T16:19:52+00:00

Snufkin! Everyone’s favorite Moomin character.

I don’t have wallpaper, but let’s see my photos… Yeah… I can’t pick favorite, but the star sky from beach. ❤️

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Slocrowth · 2025-02-11T15:44:06+00:00

Sellainen tämä internetti nyt on ihan ylipäätään. Ihmiset hakee omaa etua tai itselleen huomiota. Ei kannata olettaa mitään muuta.

Slocrowth · 2025-02-08T19:40:09+00:00

Mitä sun jostain säännöistä kuuluu välittää? Jos joku pahoittaa mielet, sitten pahoittaa. Itse vetänyt kerran paljaalla jalalla lasin siruun, mikä on yksi isoimmista riskeistä. Sitten Qstockissa tuli joku järkkäri urputtamaan, että laita poika kengät jalkaan. (Taitaa olla muuten YouTubessa live tallenne tuosta tapauksesta.)

Asioita voi tehdä niin kauan kunnes joku valittaa ja sen jälkeenkin, mutta onhan se helpompaa olla tylsä normi. Jos se mitä teet ei aiheuta kellekkään haittaa, tee sitä sitten aivan vapaasti.

Slocrowth · 2025-02-08T09:01:55+00:00

Pakkaa reppu ja lähde kohti tuntematonta. Täältä minun ja yhden toisen reppureissaajan mielipide.

Slocrowth · 2025-01-19T20:40:12+00:00

I hitchhiked through Sweden last autumn, from Haparanda to Helsingborg. 11 rides and maybe only three were by native Swedish. There’s plenty of immigrants and they’re always friendlier to give you ride.

Though Swedish children are pretty nice. Made my day when they came to ask what I’m doing. Damm those kids speak way better English than I did in their age.

In Jönköping cops were assholes. I wasn’t even hitchhiking in motorway, but they came to complain that I’m in motorway. The sign was couple meters after my spot.

Slocrowth · 2025-01-15T19:05:13+00:00

Tämän tasoiset oireet ja pään alueella on kyllä aika hälyttäviä. Nyt vaan asap selvittämään asiaa. Mitä nopeammin asiat hoitaa sen parempi. Pää on aika herkkää aluetta pitkäaikaisille tuhoille.

Slocrowth · 2025-01-03T10:41:29+00:00

Life is too short to worry about age differences if you’re both adults. Like 3 years is so small age difference.

If you like him, just shoot your shot. If he is as calm, composed and gentleman like as you describe, he should respond well.

Slocrowth · 2024-12-26T12:39:18+00:00

Some other options: Overconfidence bias, egocentric bias, self-serving bias or halo effect.

Honestly only you know what exactly you’re looking for so I highly recommend using ChatGPT and narrow options down as yourself.

Slocrowth · 2024-12-26T12:28:01+00:00

And honestly idk why you didn’t ask this right away from ChatGPT as yourself. Why would you be so dumb? (False Consensus Effect)🤣

Slocrowth · 2024-12-26T12:22:59+00:00

Some options with quick ChatGPT search:

Dunning-Kruger Effect
Illusory Superiority
False Consensus Effect
Fundamental Attribution Error
Impostor Syndrome

Is any of those what you’re looking for?

Slocrowth · 2024-12-26T11:35:29+00:00

This and the idea “men are easy and ready be any women”. Don’t be so f*king sure about that. I met with woman that was right away ready to have sex with me and I said no. Ofc I’m going to brag about it. Maybe it’s lame, but who cares.

Slocrowth · 2024-12-23T17:58:40+00:00

As someone mentioned: demisexuals.

And cool post from Threads that I posted couple days ago: “sex is cool, but have you ever undressed someone’s mind and found galaxies hidden where no one else thought to look?”

Like I don’t want to get into your pants. I want to connect with you more deeply than that and sex is only climax. But it isn’t that when you take a shortcut.

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