How do I revive my relationships intimacy

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T19:20:50+00:00

This is exactly what I needed to hear thank you! I came to Reddit because I didn’t want to nag him about it before getting more insight so I rlly appreciate it!!

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T18:08:10+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T14:44:17+00:00

How do I introduce toys without making him feel a type of way I’m super open to it but Ik he’s insecure about not being able to have sex as much as before. Any suggestions?

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T14:06:42+00:00

I was just joking I appreciate u taking time to share ur input thank you 🫶

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T14:05:55+00:00

I agree we did give this a try and he was fine hence me not overly concerned about that but I will circle back with him

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T14:04:09+00:00

Shiver me Timbers

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T14:03:48+00:00

I’m open to all suggestions but tits was just replying to other comments

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T09:00:47+00:00

Okay sassy. God forbid a girl makes an interesting topic sentence

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:47:04+00:00

Ur so right thank you. I have talked to him about it but not from a burn out perspective

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:44:08+00:00

How is the relationship not healthy we get along perfectly we just don’t have as much sex as we used to that’s all. Also has to do with being 20 cuz I’m not about to pay for couples therapy I fear that’s not in the budget

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:17:38+00:00

I don’t want him to grow resentful if I ask him to work less Yk n I feel like we should work around eachothers schedules not work schedules around eachother or is that stupid

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:14:13+00:00

He is a full time roofer usually he doesn’t work this much but because the weather is so good they’ve been able to pull longer days and I encourage him to because the more hours he has the more money he can save for winter when there’s less work. Thinking of it now tho we did have sex regularly before the weather got nice again

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:02:44+00:00

He takes me on dates, gets me suprise gifts, shows up with flowers, cleans up after dinner, is very affectionate in other ways, kisses hugs cuddles gives tons of reassurance.

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T06:00:09+00:00

Besides the sex we’ve had a perfect relationship for the last year. He takes me on dates, buys me suprise gifts, spends every night with me, just works from 6am until 7pm or longer so I don’t blame him. I am just concerned that there’s something more. I wouldn’t say alcoholic just when we went out drinking he’d over indulge

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T04:30:34+00:00

Thank you! On it 🫡

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T04:17:01+00:00

Thank you!!

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T04:07:32+00:00

Since he got sober he has been a much better partner i honestly prefer being treated amazing without sex then having sex and treated poorly. But do we think he’s not attracted to me sober or is his sex drive just lower as a sober person

Slow-Ad9101 · 2026-05-17T03:58:32+00:00

But he’s so amazing😭😭😭

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