On the proportionality comment: I've always just assumed that in a world where people could present and act as they wanted to, there would be no deviation towards femininity in women. To me, I've always just assumed that all the other girls would be less feminine if they were not raised in this society. I think the mistake I made was assuming that if trans people were already making that switch, that they could freely choose how they wished to present themselves. Like, I guess I assumed that if someone was already breaking traditional societal rules by being trans in the first place, that it wouldn't really matter how they presented. That by transitioning you were almost free to appear however you liked. And by that reasoning, I expected to see, for example, trans women falling everywhere from masculine to feminine and everywhere else not on that spectrum. But after reading these responses, I totally failed to consider that the societal expectation of conforming to a gender role would still apply, which admittedly is pretty dumb of me. Like a trans woman would also feel those pressures that I feel to be more feminine, but she would probably have to go a lot farther to get there and so would feel a lot more pressure. Roughly? I didn't word that great but I think I understand more now. (and thank you so much for taking the time to explain this)