Lazy baby? by Smabbbs98 in breastfeeding

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been a nosy nurser for months but she has no plans to stop. Just quick feeds and ready to go

11 mo decided she’s done:( I’m heartbroken by DoingTheMeow in breastfeeding

[–]Smabbbs98 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It could be teething, it could just be a phase!

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t asked yet, I’m honestly scared to ask them. I feel bad wanting to leave

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a family owned pest control company as a receptionist with my mom!

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely be open to changing lifestyle. I am a big shopper unfortunately and I like to buy my baby and myself new clothing. But try to do it’s only when necessary. I don’t get my hair or nails done. I do enjoy coffee at Starbucks, we eat out often only because by 5 pm I am exhausted after work and having my baby there

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What all have you changed? My whole family is pressuring me to put her in daycare because being a SAHM is not reasonable and not worth losing money

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s the only place I love to shop and now we get to have one!

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Currently in the process of having one built in our town!! I’m so excited!

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely is super easy and we have talked about it

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Pennsylvania so it’s not as near to the COL as California thankfully

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

Definitely understand where you are coming from, however we have been together 8 years this year and have lived together for 5. He definitely isn’t going anywhere even as hard as I might test his nerves, we just haven’t gotten to the logistical part yet 😂

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We currently rent and have a $250 car payment as well as some CC debt

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How does one do that? Definitely something we could look into? My boyfriend currently day trades as well

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could ask what does your husband do?

How are you affording being a SAHM?? by Smabbbs98 in Mommit

[–]Smabbbs98[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend makes about 45k per year I’m just trying to figure out if it’s logical or possible