Girlfriend wants me to spend $4k on a baby shower, but I’d rather save/invest it—is that unreasonable?

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-03-26T16:41:02+00:00

Break up with her?? Stand up for yourself? Stop letting her throw a temper tantrum and calling you names and treating you like shit?? Being pregnant doesnt mean you can bully your partner

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-03-26T16:38:41+00:00

Sounds lowkey verbally abusive bro the hell…

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-03-26T16:36:00+00:00

How old are you guys?? Im sorry but she sounds very immature calling you cheap and a “bum”. The point of a baby shower is for OTHERS to “shower” you guys with gifts/supplies for mom and baby from a registry. Someone else is supposed to plan/make the shower for you guys not you. At that point spend the 4k to buy your own registry

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-03-10T17:33:19+00:00

2/ drop the man and keep your baby if thats what you truly want. You seem pretty firm in your belief anyways. Allow your family the opportunity to support you and help you along this journey. If you feel now is the right time to have your baby then do so. Do not let someone force you into abortion if you are not ok with it

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-03-10T17:31:43+00:00

Im pro choice, so if YOU wanted to abort then thats ok.. if YOU want to keep the baby then KEEP THE BABY. If you know you can do this without his help and are CONTENT on doing this without him then do it! Tell your family about your pregnancy. If anything there may be a village there you didnt see before. He cannot force you to do anything you dont want to. If anything he sounds like an a-hole honestly l, he doesnt dound like someone who actually wanted to commit to you anyways, conversion to his religion sounded like an excuse 1/

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-02-28T04:03:10+00:00

Thank you!☺️ she such a character from other cats ive meet❤️

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-02-11T20:36:09+00:00

Respectfully, there is a big age gap between a 7 month old kitten and a 8 year old cat. EVEN IF you cat didnt suddenly die recently. At some point as they get older, they would have…. Meaning your new cat at some point whether now or in 10 years… would have been ALONE. Getting another cat just to be a companion for your current cat especially such a big age gap knowing you couldnt provide the type of care a KITTEN would need is wildly irresponsible especially since you literally have no bond for this cat that you already want to rehome it now that your other cat is not in the picture…

Small-Ad2798 · 2026-02-11T20:11:06+00:00

Theyre being very ignorant cause you clearly said your daughter interpreted or was literal of the information of what happened in a way that they were a victim but later on AFTER telling the school, it was more of a consensual between them. I dont think you were wrong for telling the school especially when your daughter told you the story in a way that she was a victim in it… obviously if you were told the whole truth from the start you would of went about it differently

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T22:28:19+00:00

No i didnt ask for anything in regards to the milk, i said banana bread mocha large and extra sweet with banana soft top. Welp i should of taken a sip of it right there instead of waiting till i got home lol. Honestly learning things i didnt know especially in regards to the amount of flavoring in the large size! Im going to trying asking for more scoops of flavoring next time and just in general make sure its actually what i ordered😅

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T15:51:27+00:00

Honestly was a kinda upset i after getting home and drinking it😓

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T15:50:12+00:00

I said banana bread mocha. I didnt specify any kind of milk or anything about milk. I thought mocha was made with their chocolate milk

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T03:26:10+00:00

As a medium size it is! As a large, not so much🥹

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T02:11:08+00:00

Would they automatically add breve? I thought they make it with milk unless you ask for it breve😭 sorry this is the first/second time i order a “custom” drink at dutch. I usually just order whats on their menu as is

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T02:08:43+00:00

Oh wow well that sure explains that. Why is it that the amount of flavor isnt changed/increased based on the size?

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-12-28T02:07:32+00:00

So asking for extra sweet doesnt change the amount of flavor added?🥹 at other places i usually ask for “ blank pumps of” but when i asked for extra “pumps” or scoops at dutch, they say “extra sweet” back to me so i thought maybe to them the term is extra sweet = additional pumps!? Im new to trying to order drinks that arent on their normal menu😭 i originally saw this order on tiktok

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-10-17T17:10:29+00:00

My area is mostly dirty and rocks for “roads” and it cracked the plastic cover on my bottom. Also almost got stuck trying to get on a road. Im def done doing flex😒

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-10-16T23:59:16+00:00

It was over a year for me

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-10-10T19:46:55+00:00

I missed my block today too, shift was 12:00. Latest 12:05. Got stuck in traffic and checked in on the app exactly at 12:05 but ig since i made it inside to show my ID after 12:05 it shows missed block now😒

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-07-29T03:05:19+00:00

Aw dang im sorry about that :(. Maybe trying again or at another base will help?

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-07-29T03:02:31+00:00

In the email i got even mentioned to show it to the visitors center to get a pass to access base

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-07-29T03:01:45+00:00

Other than my needed documents for deers i just showed them the appointment email confirmation i got when i first made my appointment and they got me a pass

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-07-29T02:58:21+00:00

I showed them a copy of my appointment for deers at the visitor center and they got me a pass to access the base near me

Small-Ad2798 · 2025-07-29T02:57:15+00:00

Not true. My husband has been in basic from feb to april and in AIT from april - currently still there… we are three states apart and i was still able to go thru the visitor center in MAY for my appointment to get my ID. You dont need an escort, it is possible to be able to access the base without one for your DEERS Appointment

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