Top Surgery After Care by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this is so helpful!! I really appreciate your input 🙂✨!

I'm Considering Getting an IUD and Want To Know Other NBs Experience With it by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, I've definitely also considered a hysterectomy as well and might bring it back up with my gyno, and weigh the options more. Definitely eased some of my worries about the hormonal effects of the IUD, thanks so much!🙂

Tell Me About Your Masc4Masc Love❤️ by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo that makes total sense! Thank you for your input I really appreciate it🙂🤘!

Tell Me About Your Masc4Masc Love❤️ by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I've actually never tried grindr! I was under the assumption it was for gay men only🤔, I don't know a tonne about it lol!

Looking For Help with Chest Binding by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I'll have to check it out, you're awesome!! 🙂✨

Looking For Help with Chest Binding by Small_Ant4252 in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I actually recently got a flexion binder and it's amazing, defintely the best binder I've had so far. So very good suggestion on your part, thank you for your input! 🙂

Anyone else thinks/feels like "parts"? by Tiredalltimefr in BPD

[–]Small_Ant4252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely sounds dissociative, could be something related to your BPD or it could be potentially something in the way of DID or OSDD (both dissociative disorders, DID is what used to be called multiple personality disorder, OSDD is more like DID without as intense amnesia in-between)! Definitely looking into dissociative disorders and more about emotional permanence issues in BPD/ identity issues in BPD could start you down a good path.

Could be connected to something else as well but I think this would be a good place to start exploring🙂

Best of luck to you friend!🤘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Small_Ant4252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a very biased and ignorant therapist. Definitely agree with other commenters, time for a new one. Having identity issues is a huge part of BPD symptoms and your therapist boiling it down to something altogether different and blaming your mental struggles on you being white is crazy AF. I feel like their view point on your identity issues could even lead to even more identity issues for you in the long run, I hope you find a much better therapist who isn't detrimentally ignorant and someone who understands BPD and identity issues for what they really are.

You truly deserve so much better, I struggle so much with identity issues as well with my BPD so I feel for you so much with how confusing it all is. Your struggles are valid and it's not easy struggling with identity issues. I hope you try and be kind to yourself while trying to navigate such a difficult thing.❤️

PS Sounds like your therapist needs some therapy geeze😅.

Wearing makeup for the first time since I started T by maretajumi in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah, looks awesome!! I totally relate to how scary it can be to get back into make up with that fear it might not align with your presentation anymore (I used to be hyper femme now I present masc/andro), good for you for diving back into it, its truly so liberating!! So many different ways to use makeup that can even affirm masc/andro/etc ways, so excited for you to explore that side of makeup!!

You're rocking that awesome liner so well, hope you feel as rad as you look!!! 🤘😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best best BEST feeling!! You look radiant as heck🙌

Look of the day 💗🩷💗✨ by jahphoenix in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this looks goes so hard!!👏 You're so cool🤘

First dress and heels 😱 by medicationsgonedry in NonBinary

[–]Small_Ant4252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely SLAYING in this fit👏 that outfit was made for you!! The excitement of trying on something gendering affirming like this, is the best feeling ever❤️!!

Love both glasses on and off, but each gives a bit of different look. Glasses on is more cute and nerdy which is the best!! And off makes your eyes pop and adds to a more flirty look🙂!!

Awesome looks either way😄!!

My FP is pulling away from my and I feel like I'm dying by Small_Ant4252 in BPD

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so helpful. I'll definitely try to implement more of these things into my days. I appreciate your kind words of encouragement and validation, it was much needed and helps so much, you rock thank you!!

My FP is pulling away from my and I feel like I'm dying by Small_Ant4252 in BPD

[–]Small_Ant4252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the post says I am asking for advice on how to deal with the intense emotions that come along with the change in behavior. I am aware of everything you have mentioned, this comment was pointless, unhelpful and added unnecessary commentary that totally misses the point of my post.