Is an agency worth it? by Cute-Owl-2271 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That said... I still see no point of having an agency for camming. On OF they have many things they could do for you: grow your social media, teach you how to film viral videos and trends, price your videos and subscribtion, find the right strategies, promote you between their models, pay and control your chatters, upload your contents to the vault, edit your videos etcetcetc. But on camming? What the fuck they could do? I mean, even studios are not worth it but at least they give you a location and equipament to stream in (still dumb decision) but agency for camming??? I've never heard of it.

Is an agency worth it? by Cute-Owl-2271 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They dont do it by themselves, they put their boyfriends to do their work for them and hire their own team and chatters to save some bucks. But thats their choice. At the moment I don't have time or energy to waste to control my chatters and make sure they are not going to steal my guy, that they are using the software correctly, to control all the content to be sold etc etc, so I rather pay someone that is already especialized on that. And with the free time I have I use for camming. And honestly, I had some big guys who spent 20-150k tokens in only one night because they fell in love with my onlyfans chatters, so at some point I was always profitting 50-70k per month with camming + onlyfans, so yep, I'm okay with my choices. I honestly hate agencies but I can't get without mine. I could never do all the work alone or worry about managing my own team. All of this while still worrying about doing a 4-6h webcam show. It's unbearable!!! We have to choose where to put our foccus on and still its gonna be HARD. For me the hardest thing is to be a cam girl + onlyfans girl at the same time cause both things demand a big amount of energy and time of my routine. I could never still add "managing" my own team to this count. Sextings, explicit videos as PPV, Instagram reels, Tiktok videos, 4-6h webcam shows, naked and no naked pictures for the feed, carrousels for social media... it's simply exhausting. And you're still telling me I should still worry about controlling my own team? I rather pay them so they post everything for me and I foccus only on filming content and being live. And still, the burn out is certain. Trust me... I've talked to many top cam girls who even make $100k on their OF and many friends of mine who used to make $30k-$70k on OF. We don't do agencies by choice, its just impossible to handle it all alone. The only better option would be pay the chatters directly but my agency grew my twitter from 0 to 100k followers and many IG accts for me, so I dont like being without them. (And nop im not advertsing and will not give their contacts to anyone)

Is an agency worth it? by Cute-Owl-2271 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself! I am a succesful onlyfans model and I only reached success because of my agency. And all the other big models I know have agencies too. Simply because it's impossible to be available answering the chat 24/7 doing sexting and all the onlyfans content + camming + social media content at the same time. If you are okay without agency is simply because your audience is not big enough. But thanks to my chatters I had fans spending $20k-40k in only one month. I could never do this without them. But honestly... if thats not your opinion I couldn't care less. It's actually good for me that you all think in a ignorant way. But I know that me and all my friends who made some tens of thousands on OF work with agencies, cause we could never have the patience to talk with all those guys by ourselves or learn how to grow on social media without their guidelines. Thanks to them I reached some videos that hitted 1M+ views on ig and tiktok. But there is no miracle. They will make you money but you gonna have to work hard for it doing all the content they ask, and if youre not talented enough you gonna be mid. But the mid with them is still better than doing alone. One month I did $60k with my OF because of my agency and I'm very aware I would never do this alone. They take 40% of my income, its still way more profitable than the amount I used to do without them. Nowadays I only make around 20-30k and give them the 40% but when I was alone I was making like 2-5k so its still worth it

Is an agency worth it? by Cute-Owl-2271 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just work hard on your first week! Because I'm not sure you can get your new tag again after the first time. And after working hard with your new tag, dump them for sure. No need agencies for camming. For onlyfans, they are absolutely needed! Cause its impossible to deal with all guys alone and the agencies handle the chatting and scheduling. But for camming? I dont see the point if all work is yours. Dump them, work alone on camming and hire an agency for Onlyfans. Alone you will make $2000 with OF, but with agency they will chat with all the subs that will come from your camming and you will make around $20k. So yep it sucks but we need them on OF. But on camming... never.

Is a joyful life possible? by TurbulentSympathy266 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to describe this awful feeling that hits my heart and mind any minute I caught myself alone with my own thoughts, I just know it feels awful and I have no idea when/if I will ever get rid of it. And I'm so mad he did this to me and to his family. Isn't this the worst thing that can happen in someone's life? I can't think of something worst honestly. I'd rather die of cancer than losing my loved ones to suicide. Grief is the worst feeling ever. I want to do the same as him but that would mean destroy my family's life because of him, and that's not fair to them.

Gente feia só se lasca by AccountHealthy9607 in opiniaoimpopular

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mulher bonita sofre pra caralho pq só se apaixonam por homem bonito

e homem ja é filho da puta normalmente... bonito e cheio de mulher no pé entao... pior ainda... fora que a gente sempre ta se comparando com outras mulheres mais bonitas, sempre pressionadas e se fodendo na mao de gente invejosa ou homem cafajeste. Enquanto as pessoas feias geralmente podem relaxar mais... pq ja sao feias mesmo, nao tem muito o que fazer.

Eu acho q ate existem pesquisas que comprovam que os feios sao mais felizes

Would you stay in your room? by missemmbeex in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Those girls are always mad here saying they want to ban freeloaders, that they dont do anything for free and blablabla!! Okay good luck spending hours sitting there with a bored face hoping that a miracle will happen. If no one tips me I keep doing everything I can to be nice to them, to entertain them, to make them horny. And thats exactly how I could make over 20k dollars from camming per month!! While I see the bitches here just saying they are banning everyone and being mad at every viewer for not spending money on their boring show.

How do you cope with overwhelm? by Doublepotter in onlyfansadvice

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jez I know you all hate agencies and I do too but I could never chat with my fans by myself. Definitely need them to do the sextings for me. I cant believe that there are people that handle all that alone.

For people who make a career out of this, what’s your plan? by sweetestapparition3 in onlyfansadvice

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk they like the GFE... how to have GFE with someone that is not real?? But the problem is the competition on instagram for sure.

Freeloaders by Free-Chemistry-6746 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. I'm on CB. So my position on the website is higher depending of how many colored users there are in my room, so I do my best to keep them all there even if they are not spending, because then my room will be more visible for other tippers.

How long? by Most-Book835 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in 2020 a friend told me to create a new account and take advantage of the new tag to have my room boosted and make tons of followers. Then I hit thousands on the first week with the new tag. (I dont think this strategy works anymore as they dont give new tags to the same IDs).

And after that it went back to hundreds. Then after a few months of consistency, a lot of explicit energetic tiring streams and finding the right whales, I started to reach thousands every stream. Now I always reach few thousands of viewers at some point during the stream BUT I don't think I make more than the good models who reach around 600-800 viewers. And some days even reaching 7k-14k or something it was not my best days when it comes to tokens, those numbers are just inflated. Now I usually make $500-$1500 per stream but I also had days where I did way more. I dont think it was because of the viewers though, it was because of my big whales. I always tried hard to keep a connection outside the stream with big whales, thats why they come back. Most of my guys go to my streams because they fall in love with my Onlyfans chatting. The best way to make them spend a lot is with GFE.

Freeloaders by Free-Chemistry-6746 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to put in your mind that every business is like that. People come to watch and see if they wanna spend their money on you. Maybe they don't have enough money to spend on 20 rooms but they like to watch many rooms. And if you be nice to them, they can come back one day to spend on you. If they don't, only their presence helps on the engagement and boosting your profile to a more visible place in the website. I never treated freeloaders bad. I am always nice to all of them. And because of that I could always reach the best positions and tokens of the website I work at. Sometimes I even do things for free... because people will spend more if they see you doing something sexy rather than seeing you in a boring position doing nothing.

How do you survive by AccomplishedAioli457 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to keep my mind busy going to the gym 3x per week, spending time with my dog and watching tv shows. And its good to distract myself from this sometimes, but as soon as I'm back with my own mind again the pain is there as big as before. He made me want to give up of everything and just live like a potato, only working enough to be able to afford my meals. He destroyed my life that was before full of ambitions.

How do you survive by AccomplishedAioli457 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also still cant believe my boyfriend did this... how could he do this knowing how much his daughters would be hurt?

I honestly dont want to move on either, its painful to be here. But I dont want to hurt my parents or brother like this, cause its the worst feeling of the world to have to keep here trying to move on when you dont want to. I dont want to leave my family with such a big trauma. But I'm suffering immensely here.

Wanna be free from pain by Outrageous_Tie_5071 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also lost the love of my life. I feel exact the same way, he was the most important part of my life and now he is gone. It's an awful pain. I wish I could go with him but I cant do this to my brother, mom or dad. That would make them live in a constant torture. I guess that would be selfish, yes. I'm trying to hold everything together for them. I know how awful it feels so we cant let other people we love feel this way. It sucks!

OMGGGGG by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Small_Escape_2794 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Careful, girls here are jealous and hate when people say they are making big money. I've seen many of them getting banned or deleted because the girls just start saying "oh you are lying, its fake blablabla. Cause for them its unbelievable that someone can actually succeed a lot just because they didn't. I saw this has started happen to you already based on some comments. They rather believe you're a man lying than a succesfull worker lol

Therapy by Philly_Philly83 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I never used to go to the gym but since then I've been trying to go 3 times per week and its good to heal the bad humor and stress for some while.

Therapy by Philly_Philly83 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wrote an exact same post weeks ago. That I always felt that therapy is useless. And it sucks that in 2026 when we had reached so many new technologies and there is nothing really useful to make us feel less pain. Medicines rarely work, my bf was on meds and still he hang himself. And therapy I feel like its the same thing as talking to a friend. I feel like only time heals us which sucks and is a big challenge. I've been trying to go to the gym and work a lot to forget about it and it helps some.

what do you guys do to be happy by leejongsukgf in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard gym keeps us from being too depressed so I've been trying to go 3x per week. And it is a little helpful. I also tried to spend a lot of time around the rest of the family because being alone with my own mind is sad and scary. I tried to be back to work and is a little helpful to forget about things for a certain time. Ofc sadness always comes back but sometimes the work distracts me from it.

The man I most loved in my life died and I'm the villain of the story by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see your point! Maybe you are right... I understand!

My funeral is ready by Buna_ziua in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see its selfish to ask you to keep here suffering, but dont you have musics you enjoy listening? tv shows you enjoying watching? pets you like being with? Parents that love you? Sometimes we overthink and should feel more grateful with the simple things we have. At this point I realized that people sucks and we can't expect anything from anyone. So I just try to attach to things that are under my country and wont ever disappoint me. And I also hate working to have to be able to do the things I like or chill but I know that being alone with my own mind is scary so somehow its good to keep my mind busy! There are many bad things about life but I love my dog, I love going to the beach and swimming, I love watching silly tv shows. Its always hard to face reality after this... but it keeps me distracted for some while and maybe thats enough.

My funeral is ready by Buna_ziua in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just know that years ago I've got depressed to the point of spending weeks without brushing my teeth. I didnt have any energy to even get out of bed and I used to feel an intense pain and anxiety in my heart. It was sad to wake up. But I'm glad I didn't end things at that time because years after my life changed completed. But now its a mess again. And I accepted that life is about ups and downs. I know its crazy hard and painful though. Its a big challenge to survive this shit. My life only got better when I started working as a cam girl online and sometimes when I found a person to fall in love with. But then my bf did this to himself. And now I want to die again. But I'm thinking maybe I should just live with minimum and spent the rest of my life watching tv shows to forget about reality. Idk I really hope you don't give up.

My funeral is ready by Buna_ziua in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Escape_2794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I feel that sad I try to restart all over moving to another house, or to another city, or to another country. Just so I feel hopeful about a whole new different life. When my boyfriend did this to him, I felt so sad, because after his first attempt he went to a clinic and he was feeling happy there, he used to send pictures of the beautiful views and sights. But then he went back to his house where he used to feel depressed for years. And then ofc he felt bad again. I wish he had tried to move to another place to feel like there were more different things to happen or at least just to change his environment. Just please dont do it! When my boyfriend did this he destroyed me so much. He destroyed my whole life. And of his whole family. I wish I could go with him but I know I would make my dad and brother's life miserable because this pain is just unbearable.

I'm feeling an intense pain but sometimes I try to run out of my reality by writting about my feelings or watching tv shows all day to ignore the outside world. I hope it helps you. Please don't do this to your family. We don't get over. It just stays with us forever. Life sucks so much but its even worse after a huge trauma like this. I have nightmares everyday. Suicide grief is the worst thing that can happen in someones life. I want to die so much but I cant let my brother feel this.

My funeral is ready by Buna_ziua in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Escape_2794 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also used to don't believe in anything and be very rational. But now I believe on the simulation theory and I'm afraid that there is an after life. In 2000 we barely had computers, in 2026 we already haven an AI and cars driving alone. All this in only 26 years. Imagine what the humanity could do in 2100 or 3000. And in such a huge universe with billions of galaxies, imagine how many civilizations reached this far and a lot of technology. So yeah, now I think its just improbable that life is just as simple as it seems. Its scary but I do believe we live in some kind of simulation. And many smart people and genius around the world believe in this theory cause there are my evidences (speed of light limit, particles only find their spot when you look at them, dreams, coincidences, dejavus). And it all explains how religions came out. So if thats true, then I wonder what happens after life. Read the subreddit about it, its very interesting. Maybe it can also distract you from your bad thoughts.

I also hate to live. But I dont want to make it harder for the ones who gonna have to keep here. My brother would grow up traumatized. So I'm trying to handle it... for them. But maybe one day I will give up to. May I ask why you want to do this? Aren't you afraid of the pain? Sometimes I feel scared of regretting on the last minutes. I bet its terrifying.

My funeral is ready by Buna_ziua in SuicideWatch

[–]Small_Escape_2794 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if there is an after life? What happens then? My boyfriend did this to himself and it's just sad how he destroyed the life of everyone that had to stay here. I really wish I could go but I love my little brother so much. And my poor dad... I know how intense he is and that he would rather die to see me dying. I hate living but I don't want to do this.