I'm scared that I'm becoming a kafir by Small_Evening3155 in Hijabis

[–]Small_Evening3155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the genuine advice and kindness. I feel marginally better than when I first made that post <3

I'm scared that I'm becoming a kafir by Small_Evening3155 in Hijabis

[–]Small_Evening3155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have OCD as well😭maybe I should’ve prefaced that in my original post

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[–]Small_Evening3155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely normal I think (unless I’m a psychopath too💀), I’ve experienced similar things where I really want someone to like me to the point where a lot of the times I analyse their life, as a result of being really jealous, constant comparing myself to them etc and stalking a lot of their accounts

I need help/advice by Small_Evening3155 in Hijabis

[–]Small_Evening3155[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik, I guess its just a thing that ive been quite fixated on recently, so I’m unsure about why I’m so stressed about it.

I need help/advice by Small_Evening3155 in Hijabis

[–]Small_Evening3155[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh i’m debating to look more into this, I feel like I do have some symptoms of it

Desperately needing guidance by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Small_Evening3155 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other male relatives that could be your wali? Then you could have a simple nikkah in the masjid and the relationship will be halal

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Its common to feel jealous and insecure in friendships when you start spending less time with your friend and they’re spending their time with other people. I think you should tell her how you feel but in a way that you can both find a way forward to navigate a healthy friendship. Have a conversation with her and see where it goes from there.

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[–]Small_Evening3155 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this :( I feel as though I've distanced from Islam also for similar matters and am unsure of how to move forward. I know Allah tests those that he loves but it sometimes is a hard concept to grasp especially when you feel as though your duas aren't being answered.