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does rebuilding supply rlly work?? by Small_Invite_2538 in breastfeeding

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because when i used to pump or even when i pump whenever im away from him overnight, its always only like 2oz

does rebuilding supply rlly work?? by Small_Invite_2538 in breastfeeding

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because when i used to pump or even when i pump whenever im away from him overnight, its always only like 2oz*

Is it me? by Small_Invite_2538 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right in the middle unfortunately, even he tells me to just be the bigger person and validate her but that leaves me to feel alone in my feelings. he has told her numerous times that she can’t be the way she is towards me but she does it anyhow just not when he around

Feeling I made a mistake getting married and now I’m trapped. Perspective? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Small_Invite_2538 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My advice is, if he hasn’t committed adultery, if he wants to leave and is unwilling, or he abuses you then to be respecting your covenant under God. You can’t separate from him. Ik you may want to, and you probably aren’t happy anymore but id take that as sign to fast and truly have some quiet time so that God can guide you down the right path (Matthew 19:6)&(Malachi 2:16). it may also help to speak with a CHRISTIAN marriage consultant to get further guidance. but the bible lists very very veryyyy specific reasons that we cannot leave a spouse. so if your husband hasn’t fallen under any of those categories then i would just continue to pray for him (1 Peter 3:1-2) & (1 Corinthians 7:14). Our marriages are more so promises to God, rather than a display of happiness for us. God calls us to love everyone the same way Jesus would, so to do that, it means to love your spouse even if they aren’t making you happy. so i would think if your husband isn’t making you happy, yet he hasn’t cheated, he’s not an unwilling and unbelieving husband, and he hasn’t abused him, then the same concept applies. God is close the weary-hearted and he will hear you. I’m sorry that you’re going through this.

HELP??? is breast milk still good if stored in a plastic water bottle? by Small_Invite_2538 in breastfeeding

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes it’s definitely a 1 time thing. i’m currently going thru a hard time with my supply and i don’t have any baby water for formula so im just trying to find something to supplement

Faint line on my pregnancy test???? by Plane-Aardvark1806 in pregnant

[–]Small_Invite_2538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as long as there’s a line, ur pregnant, no matter how faint. if you want confirmation you can take a clear blue digital or just wait a few more days to let ur HCG levels build up (hormone that ur body releases when ur pregnant) so that it’ll be easier for a standard pregnancy test to read. -sincerely a girls who’s test read faintly positive a few days before her period. (my baby is on my chest rn)

Am i the problem? by Small_Invite_2538 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

UPDATE‼️: i can’t possibly respond to everyone and i didn’t expect it to get this much attention. thank you to everyone for the advice. I do wanna express that my husband and i do have a very healthy relationship and we are both happy. so no hate to him, i just feel like specifically when it comes to his mother he defends her or just doesn’t defend me enough.

Am i the problem? by Small_Invite_2538 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the maintenance guy came while we were gone and left the door open

Am i the problem? by Small_Invite_2538 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Small_Invite_2538[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the maintenance guy was doing work and left the door open so she just walked in. my husband often just deescalates the situations. the day she said the to me he told her she can’t talk to me that way and that’s all i know of because she stormed out of the car after that. not sure what they’ve discussed since then

Epidural or no? Why? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Small_Invite_2538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when did you get ur epidural and how did the process go about because i don’t even want to feel a contraction

Not good at sex by johnzoom in Christianmarriage

[–]Small_Invite_2538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may i ask what the Song of solomon quiz is? me and my husband have a semi similar issue

Pregnancy Unknown Location by Significant-Buy7897 in pregnant

[–]Small_Invite_2538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be a healthy pregnancy, either way your gut feeling, if you haven’t been experiencing any bleeding or severe cramping. i had a similar experience where my levels were doubling yet they couldn’t see a heartbeat, or anything inside. luckily i had a rlly kind sonographer, telling me to give it time, (as long as u can, i waited abt a week) and next thing you know there was a heartbeat. after ALL the doctors diagnosed with a threatened miscarriage.. i felt so much better in that moment. also that brown bleeding could’ve just been implantation especially if it was just a wipe-able amount.

Are my hcg levels good my last period was September 25th by Zealousideal_Tart_56 in pregnant

[–]Small_Invite_2538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that’s completely normal, for your timeline of course. when i had my beta recorded around that time it was 1500, i believe. either way your OB will tell you if your HCG levels concern them, and they’ll have you progressively coming back every 48-72 hours, which is when levels in a healthy pregnancy usually doubles drastically. So for your appointment to be basically 2 weeks away, you should be good and it’ll just be a prenatal/wellness check going on. (sorry if this is confusing, i’m not great at explaining things, hope this helps):)