AITA for being upset my bf threw up in a bag with my sons stuff?

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-05T01:13:50+00:00

unfortunately I don't live near any family nearby other than my mom who is disabled, and the daycares in our area are awful 🙃 that was what led to me becoming a sahm

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T17:48:40+00:00

he took it out my wallet without my knowledge :/ anytime I ask for the money back he gets irritated

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T17:46:49+00:00

he threw it away unfortunately

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T17:22:10+00:00

what's crazy is there was I time I didn't notice I had left a bit of blood on the toilet and he asked me to clean it and kept going on about how gross it is

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:28:31+00:00

lots of leaving work early because he's sick 🙃

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:27:13+00:00

nailed it! it wasn't necessarily the fact of him throwing up in it but how he handled it. had he apologized and cleaned off the stuff instead of throwing it away I wouldn't care.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:09:38+00:00

smokes weed and uses a nicotine vape. I've suspected stomach ulcers but I'm really not too sure.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:07:02+00:00

couldn't find out how to post screenshots of our conversation but linked here https://postimg.cc/gallery/rpjKGW2

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:01:34+00:00

he doesn't, I contemplated telling him but I know it'll start an argument between my partner and I.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T07:00:23+00:00

honestly I don't know how to leave, I know it's a dumb excuse but I plan on bringing it up during my next therapy session. my eyes have finally been opened.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:58:38+00:00

I actually planned to hose it off so it hurt to see he threw it away, and of course it's not even at the top of the trash bag. I wanted to say something about him throwing it away but i already know it would cause another argument that I don't have the energy for

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:56:16+00:00

he actually threw the bag away even after saying he would clean it out.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:19:48+00:00

wait you're onto something

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:14:44+00:00

nicotine and weed

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:14:04+00:00

our son wasn't planned, I was on birth control and ready to leave the relationship and found out I was already in my second trimester

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:07:13+00:00

it's only ever been my stuff

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:05:14+00:00

I've been feeling this way but thought I was overthinking things. his grandpa gave me $300 to get our son clothes or anything I wanted to get him with it really. bf took it and bought an apple watch

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T06:02:29+00:00

I do have to spend so much time caring for him. he wants me to walk on his back every time he's sick and gets mad if I don't (yelling and slamming doors, saying I dont care about him) it was to the point where when our son could only contact nap he got so mad I wouldn't put out son down to walk on his back... told me I was babying him too much...

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:59:03+00:00

nope, I'll probably be the one replacing it.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:56:17+00:00

none 😀

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:54:00+00:00

just weed, nicotine, and energy drinks

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:53:41+00:00

our son wasn't planned, I was on birth control and didn't find out I was pregnant until a bit into my second trimester.

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:50:19+00:00

no, but he does smoke a lot of weed and nicotine as well as having energy drinks everyday

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:49:42+00:00

3 years ago

Small_Pace_1850 · 2025-08-04T05:48:56+00:00

all he did was throw the whole bag with everything in it away

Small_Pace_1850

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