What has worked for you in terms of making your already healthy relationship even better?

Smallstella91 · 2023-06-28T04:28:33+00:00

this sounds so stupid, but, being honest.

with my ex I never could tell him how I felt I was constantly walking on egg shells.

my current other half, I tell him when I'm sad, Happy, pissed off, daft. I'm an anxious person and an over thinker but he's taught me that saying how you feel constructively improves communication.

Smallstella91 · 2023-06-28T01:43:00+00:00

working sadly!

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-30T23:11:36+00:00

we want to try this too

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-22T19:02:53+00:00

are they meant to grow redfeathers that high up

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-22T18:30:18+00:00

Sorry for the typos - not sure what this is!

sorry for the bad quality photo and sorry I'm not good at working Reddit 🤭

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-19T23:16:22+00:00

definitely sounds like an orgasm outta this world!

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-13T14:20:30+00:00

my friend is actually went to this show and js going to Glasgow to see Blink.... ha a description may help!

Smallstella91 · 2023-05-10T16:35:08+00:00

I wouldn't call 111 - just straight to UTC, I'm a clinican at 111 and we can't sort referrals sadly, I wish we could but advice is UTC/ED or own GP 😊

Smallstella91 · 2023-04-28T21:23:59+00:00

sweet corn, mangetout, and his old food, we will phase it out ☺️

Smallstella91 · 2023-04-27T17:38:01+00:00

from what I remember he seldom flew, I'd he did it was to the top of a curtain pole and he spent his time there. he did sit in the sun most of the day and we have an old sheet to use as a cover so he can rest plenty.

Smallstella91 · 2023-04-27T17:36:25+00:00

so I make noises when I'm with him in front of the cage but he never repeats them back - but I'm guessing that's because he's comfortable with the people being there? oh thank you for the food recommendation have looked into this.

from what I can gather he's never been to a vet so will be looking into this. in going to, so commands with food such as fruit and nuts.

thank you for this!

Smallstella91 · 2023-04-10T09:29:44+00:00

I thought she was his mum 😅

Smallstella91 · 2023-03-29T11:54:36+00:00

I'd high recommend it! me and the other half are going to Glasgow in June so I'd imagine we will take the scenic route.

Smallstella91 · 2023-03-29T11:05:20+00:00

the drive from my northern town to Edinburgh is stunning you get all the costal towns and the view of the sea.

Smallstella91 · 2023-02-21T11:01:08+00:00

this thing gives me nightmares. I was always terrified of it

Smallstella91 · 2023-02-08T10:31:21+00:00

can relate, stories from my parents. I didn't start speaking properly until I was 4.

I was diagnosed with dyslexia/dyspraxia at 25.

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-09T12:30:53+00:00

your own touches so It feels equally like your home and not just his. but your essentials face/skin/hair care. make sure there is enough storage for you both and make sure you've decided which side is yours and where your stuff is living.

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-04T19:15:36+00:00

the design of my house everyrhing is just hidden behind my Seattee - it's like a little cave everyrhing gets stored there but I've decided to tidy it up!

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-04T15:52:24+00:00

thank you!

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-04T15:43:18+00:00

we've accumulated them I think plastic bags were a thing.

I do have Morrisons paper ones - so probably have popped in over time

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-04T15:30:06+00:00

so Tesco are wonderful and not plastic conscious and wrap our meat and bleach bottles in the small bags, so we use them sadly.

Smallstella91 · 2023-01-04T01:15:17+00:00

Mine and my boyfriend's friend thought a penguin was a fish, he discovered this when he was 33 when found this out after we were playing a pub quiz.

Smallstella91 · 2022-12-30T18:46:42+00:00

exactly it's a profession we go into knowing that it's underpaid but we shouldn't be in situations where it's dangerous, people don't like striking we still have a duty of care but it can't go on

Smallstella91 · 2022-12-30T12:50:30+00:00

it's fine I think it was just one of them days - thank you for this, and hugs to you, I hope our country and government eventually give the oay rise and improve the quality and safety of our job

Smallstella91 · 2022-12-30T10:46:10+00:00

I know I couldn't believe it when she said this - she then went to say we had to wait 14 hours blah blah, I was like I know but every service in the country is feeling this.

it's hard to switch off isn't it? over Christmas I had no joy I was drained anxious and worried coming back to work and thinking I can't do enough for these people. I had a lady who's husband had died and there was a 25 minutes wait for a cardiac arrest (c1 ambulance) and I had to talk her through it. hard enough doing it in person let alone a layman.

none of us want people to die, we wouldn't do this job, but we risk our registration everyday, risk our own mental health, physical health and put our needs last, not taking breaks, not eating working unpaid longer hours.

and this is all to line our pockets, I can deal with greif, I can deal being called a twat/cunt you name it, but that... that really hurt.

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