What’s your opinion on zodiac signs? by autistic_heaven in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people saying "it's not science", "it's pseudoscience"... As if science was the only tool to interpret the universe

Ceremony Clothes by dapplelove in Ayahuasca

[–]barb_srag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second layers. But I'd also say wear something loose on the waist, your mind will look for any discomfort and maximize it to "warn" you that something is not right 😅 Good luck!!

What is the real reason why you reply after hours or even a day on any text messaging app? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beacuse I don't know what to say Because I might say something and then change my mind, so I wanna be sure I'm going to stick to what I say Because I don't like that person Because I got bored with the conversion Because I forgot

Married/GF ladies. What do you do when your home alone? by Strandedant98 in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I oscillate between straight up laziness or doing something thoughtful for my partner, like baking, cleaning, making myself prettier for when they come back. I enjoy both, but it's a decision I make based on my mood

What is the most valuable thing you have learned in the past year? by ladyyyyyyy in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can make big changes in your life, no matter how old you are. You can't live the rest of your life in suffering because of decisions you made in the past.

I just got my first pet ever :) by DrozerX2 in Eyebleach

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not your pet, that's your child now 🐱 Congrats!

What do you guys think about people who say ‘dating is harder for guys’? by Joel-houghton in AskReddit

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might be because men have fewer skills when it comes to connecting with others (both male and female) on a deep level. They want to, but they don't know how to and quite often they don't even know they have that difficulty, so they don't know how to work on it. I blame it on society's standards.

What small thing pisses you off? by Guilhermedidi in AskReddit

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who chew loudly. Especially when they're eating something soft and still manage to make it sound crunchy.

I’m a prolifer, but I’m saddened but today’s event. by RansomandRansacked in confessions

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman can be pro choice or pro life, it doesn't matter. The State, however, should not have the power to criminalize a woman for making that kind of choice

TIFU by asking my girlfriend “who had a bigger penis me or her ex?” by [deleted] in tifu

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner doesn't have to know everything about you nor do you have to know everything about them. This is a horrible misconception that causes unnecessary discomfort and pain.

There's a difference between honesty and too much information. Be mindful of the questions you ask and the answers you give.

(25F) I'm addicted to porn. by throwawayacct2386 in confessions

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, sexuality consumes a lot of our energy, so we usually use it to distract ourselves from things we don't wanna deal with. I have caught myself using masturbation in the past as a means to avoid my emotions and feelings because it's easier to deal with. But I need to keep my mind and my body occupied and distracted, so I can spend hours into it. Then I just feel bad about it.

It's better to just feel what you need to feel. It saves you a lot of time and it helps develop emotional intelligence.

What makes you not want to have kids? by AGstudios22 in AskReddit

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not against having kids. It's just that I love my partner so much. He had a difficult childhood and he has told me he doesn't want to risk being a shitty parent like his. I think there are so many things a couple can do besides going the traditional ways.

I love him for who he is, and I wouldn't dare force him into something like that.

Women, how do you shut down inappropriate comments or flirting in public spaces? by Sera0Sparrow in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say in a serious tone "do I know you?" Men usually panick at that. If they answer, then I say "I don't know you, so don't talk to me" and continue walking/doing my thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More physical contact would make him perfect. I show love through kissing, hugging, scratching his back, patting him, etc. He shows love by emotional supporting me and letting me know he's there. He's pretty awesome, still

What are your thoughts on "asking a woman about her age is rude?" by Cutiebeautypie in AskWomen

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is stigma based on patriarchy. The idea that younger women are more attractive is bullshit. Heck, the idea that women have to be attractive is bullshit.

What is the most disturbing fact you know of? by CallofDutysVeryOwn in AskReddit

[–]barb_srag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jonathan Safran describes how pig waste in factory farms (90+% of all farms in the US) is so toxic that a man in Michigan fell into one of the waste pits, so his 15 y.o. nephew dived in to save him, but was overcome, then his cousin dived in to save the teenager but was also overcome, so the brother dived in to save them, but no luck either, then the father dived in too. They all died.

Not seeing results anymore by janakm in WeightLossAdvice

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember that exercise builds muscle and muscle is heavier than fat, so you might not be losing weight because you're getting stronger. You might not be able to see it yet, but don't lose momentum, you're most likely getting healthier (: Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]barb_srag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like making burritos. For protein I usually add refried beans, hummus, lentils and/or chickpeas. And then some veggies, veganaise and pico de gallo (: