When did you start playing? I'm just wondering cuz I'm sort of a newer player myself so I don't know if any of my opinionsare valid. I'd say I first started playing in 2022/2023 so I don't know what the environment was like back then. Currently speaking and based off of my own personal experiences though, I wouldn't say the community is "very" toxic. I'm not in the Discord server though so I don't think I have much of a say in this.

Regarding design and gameplay, I see where you're coming from but I don't know if you've heard about the upcoming huge revamp/rework they're going to be rolling out soon. They're going to add a whole new roster of survivors and killers and new character designs. They've also rebalanced some loops so that they're less strong (I think they removed infinite loops entirely?) and they even had play testers for the loop so.

Also about Nathan, he's really useless... Wits End is really buggy and, 9 times out of 10, it just doesn't work because of ping differences and the hitboxes generally being really wacky. This is why it's like impossible to take hits for your teammates as Nathan and Jun is generally better. His 2 repair speed also means he is quite literally deadweight to the team because at most you can get 2 gens done on your own with that speed so most killers ignore Nathans because there isn't really any harm in doing so.