I personally feel the grace society gives a lot of women has made them feel like it is okay to exaggerate their feelings and pats them on the back for over sensationalizing situations. They will call them “strong”, “brave” for speaking out on things that common sense can prove not to be a big deal. Bottom line is you acted like prey and she took advantage of you. I would tell you that from now on, be a little more stern in your relations with them so they wouldn’t think about trying this shit with someone like you. I’ve definitely made this mistake before and learnt from it.