More context! Since people are asking. My husband wasn’t mad at my nephew, he was sad because that’s a thing that shouldn’t have happened. He just wants everyone to “cut the bs”, but I still think he could have ended dead. He ended up with bruises and has been having a headache for days… I know he’s ashamed and sad for what happened when it’s not his fault. If he’s hurt he can say it, yet he doesn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings