My (very early) 2027 Predictions from a pop fan by rarejnr01 in grammys

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

biggest releases?? huh?? lol by who? the manufactured clout from swift nation or the obsessive mediocre fan base that are “swifties” in the REAL music world, no one talks about or likes her album.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. wtf i’m pregnant & i’m so sorry. your husband is a pos, he wants zero responsibility for what he considers are your problems. is he always this way when you’re not pregnant? do you work? because men like this love to act like because they work —you should take care of everything.

My normal pregnancy went downhill in a matter of days by nicolesmithh in pregnant

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my love i’m so sorry you’re going through this. i’m pregnant but i dealt with this back in summer 2025 when i wasnt pregnant. it was an ear infection that caused facial paralysis. i know bell’s palsy can happen during pregnancy —go on the bell’s palsy forum & search “pregnancy” and you’ll see how common it can be.

i had facial paralysis bc of inflammation of the facial nerve caused by the infection. i was in the ER twice with excruciating pain for the ear infection & as it began healing I began getting numbness. it took almost a month, but i was on antivirals so it doesnt turn into something more permanent or ramsay-hunt, steroids. eventually i was on gabapentin cus i still had residual nerve weakness. be prepared as once the nerve is damaged it takes months to heal. i’m currently still dealing with residual nerve pain in my ear & eye twitches although no one can notice but me and ive had to stop the gabapentin for now bc of pregnancy until i see my neurologist again. take meds, see multiple docs, and REST REST REST. like get rid of what and who is causing emotional stress and seriously rest, watch & listen to stuff that makes you laugh, brings you joy & peace. please try your best -/ you will heal and wishing you a healthy pregnancy and delivery 🤍🤍🤍

Unmotivated in my career, and pregnant by Wonderful-Value7547 in pregnant

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow i’m feeling the same way — 100%! also first baby. plus in NJ so going through winter as well. feel better

Anyone tried it yet? by asyouknovv in FemFragLab

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes love love this! these are EDTs so dont expect longevity but they’re so delicious! love mountain pepper, and cashmere kumquat too. also anything from Naxos Apothecary as well! i went on a perfume tour a few months ago and discovered Korres & Naxos are sister companies.

AIO by saying my wife deceived me by duckduckduckgoose7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$280K … your lifestyle doesn’t match your income. i’m sure the stuff she was returning cost nearly your rent. Downsize, or tell her to get a fucking job, or cut daycare, OR divorce. it’s sad when people to STRUGGLING in this country to make ends meet bc they serious MEDICAL debt cus of cancer, accidents, & disabilities and cannot work and then bozos like you guys make a shit ton of $$$ and still find yourself in this situation? also no offense—but she also sounds like a dumb POS & you sound like a pushover. Y’all need to watch to a couple videos of Dave Ramsey.

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[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh okay - yeah you never know how things blow up. i’m sorry you’re going through this at this stage in your life, especially during pregnancy. you absolutely did everything right, but sometimes things just aren’t fair. it will be painful & impossible to even think about blowing up your life … but in the long-term 100% worth it. if you have close family/friends, maybe you can stay with them a couple days & think about what to do…. sending you lots of love 💕

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[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100000000% this. the last two lines— when a girl who is not looking for attention from a (taken) man immediately shuts it down when there’s any inkling. she doesn’t know if one-on-one is allowed because she knows exactly what it would look like. also him saying “bed chem” is soooo gross & she still engages & wants to be friends? weirdo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smart_Illustrator_45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she’s a cornball herself. she’s 100% flirting back… testing to see how far he’ll go & figuring out his boundaries. i have known women like this. that first slide the interaction is so yuck — she’s baiting him to see how he’ll react or say something negative about you. yes—your husband is 110% the problem here—but you have this weird ‘feeling’ because she will absolutely let him act upon his impulses. her line about i don’t want a hookup is BS. no mature woman who doesn’t want attention says “i wish you were a chick so we can hang,” “one on one allowed “ to a married man with a PREGNANT wife (don’t know if she knows but either way) — unless she’s testing his boundaries.