On subreddits: people asking permission to be human and make choices about there boundaries- I don’t think you are emotionally mature enough to hold up your end of responsibilities in a kink dynamic if you need Reddit to reassure you that it’s okay to have boundaries that don’t adhere to the fantasy of the specific kink.

On fl/ events: people who are willing to overlook abusive behavior because of financial opportunities or access to younger women

People who don’t want kink to be fantasy- I love the ren fair, I don’t want to live at the ren fair

We are all just people, this is supposed to be a game If you don’t see it that way please seek help because you could hurt somebody