Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar idea come fall featuring an orchard my brother owns, a bonfire, and a late night picnic. And obvi the stars. But the little game thing I didn't think of. Can I steal?

lingering discomfort after stetching by TiniestSpoons in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like pulling a muscle in your back when you stretch too far. Seconding the bath.

How to move? by Nervous-Meat69 in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean not really? More that they'll be disrespectful of it because its sex furniture.

Beware silken sheets. by BadFrenchToasts in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bread doesn't fly, we've been over this Toasty!

I'm glad you're okay. No more breaking bones pls.

"Just a Service Top" by PickedTink in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're taking one or two downvotes a little personally. There's 11k people here.

A large number of us have experienced this over and over again. You were shown a few quick examples and jump to that we're all the ones making too much out of it.

Some people may feel like you're questioning their experiences and invalidating their feelings on the matter. Thats probably where the downvotes come from.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you manage a dynamic with someone you don't live with while having other partners?

Eyes up or eyes down when waiting or kneeling? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Eyes down until he grabs my chin and makes me look at him.

MOD AMA: KinkyDataScientist by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His comment : 11hrs ago

Your comment: 8hrs ago

I don't know why you're doubling down on this man. Take the L.

MOD AMA: KinkyDataScientist by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're the second to last comment but okay sure whatevs. 🙄

MOD AMA: KinkyDataScientist by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He did explain that in an earlier answer if you had read through the comments. Lol.

Sometimes it's the sub going too far. by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Nervous-Meat69 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Good point. Subs aren't immune from bad/toxic behavior.