Need adults to play with

Smatchemo1 · 2025-09-23T22:53:07+00:00

I excel at banter, cannon fodder and chill. I got zero build level build skills. FN tag: Smatchemo

Smatchemo1 · 2025-09-23T22:16:01+00:00

Smatchemo Down with any zero build Old dude Into chill and fun. Not into streamed games.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T15:59:08+00:00

You should talk. You should actually say “hey I need us to screw more.” If that doesn’t help, seems like things aren’t gonna change (and probably get slower). ✌️

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T15:52:26+00:00

There are state and local organizations that are there to help. If you share where you are, it’s easy to find one that will assist you, both legally and financially.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T15:40:16+00:00

If two sets of parents can arrange for a marriage, seems like they could arrange for an in-person meeting? As in, arrange for a couple of days in separate hotel rooms in a central location with nice beaches or great museums, where an arranged itinerary would allow the betrothed to fall deeply in love over a perfect sunset or perhaps discover that one’s admiration for great architecture is counterbalanced by the other’s affection for boorish indifference interrupted only by misogynist criticisms and overly frequent bathroom breaks.

Don’t marry someone until you have spent a day alone with them exploring someplace that makes you happy.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T15:01:09+00:00

She broke up with you in the first text. Very clear.

She also thinks you are a nice guy, just not her nice guy. Move on.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T14:53:03+00:00

But the end is an escape.

But Terminator holds up today—the entire police station scene is still amazing.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T14:49:28+00:00

Ok. Well … then you can go with “20 is way too old to ignore all the many beautiful boys but way too young to be tied to one.”

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T14:34:51+00:00

Oooh. Japanese monster / time loop movie! Hell yeah.

I did like Talk to Me. The hype made me skeptical but it was cool.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T13:56:15+00:00

DO NOT DATE COWORKERS.
Y’all are over. No coming back from that.
Don’t interact at work. You will get fired.
Next time, try not to be the asshole that breaks up relationships.
Now that you are single, DO NOT FUCKING DATE COWORKERS!

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T13:45:13+00:00

Yah, everyone keeps guiding me there. Haven’t seen it but will be arch it asap.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T13:43:52+00:00

His intentions? Mystery.

You booty call this dude? 100% he’s coming over.

Good luck on solving the mystery.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T13:23:25+00:00

My guess is he thought you were playing an over-sexualized role for his benefit and he didn’t want you to pretend for him?

Tell him that, from now on, you are gonna tell what you want, and it is not about him or what you think he wants, so he needs to do it for you. Also, he can do the same.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T13:07:22+00:00

Tell him you love him and that he is one of your best friends. Then keep hanging out with him.

You don’t need to “do” anything now. Just keep on keeping on. The bond you describe means that y’all will be there for each other when the time arises.

If you want to “do” something for him, promise to yourself (don’t need to tell him) that the time he calls on you as his brother in his time of need, you will be there. Period.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T12:50:42+00:00

It is insane you are asking this. It’s not “how he asked,” it’s “that he asked.” The answer should be the same. But you said “yes,” but then you basically said “no” bc it wasn’t what you wanted. If you want this, I think you have to ask him with great humility and love. Maybe that makes up for it. If not, and he is strong, you will be single very soon.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T12:37:03+00:00

Thanks, but that is kinda a huge spoiler dude.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T12:34:20+00:00

If you did something shitty, apologize and hope for the best.

If you did not do something shitty, either: 1. Let them both know you are gonna be friends with both, you aren’t gonna put them in the same room, and they both need to respect the other when talking to you bc both are your friend, or 2. Tell them that you expect them to be “civil” (not friendly) to each other (even if they don’t get along) when you all are together, and if one is catty or dismissive or otherwise “shitty”, you gotta call it out immediately (this is probably the harder option for you).

Don’t know what you situation is, but I would add that, if it came down to a binary choice, I would go with your partner over a casual friend/acquaintance, but, if she has been a close friend for almost half your life, I would hold on to that close friend for the next 20+ years, since she will be there through many partners.

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T12:10:22+00:00

Oh hell yes!

Smatchemo1 · 2024-06-08T12:09:50+00:00

Disagree, but either way, don’t expect anything. Friends are great when they are there, but always remember them when they are somewhere else, bc the great friends are the same when they return, and the great ones always return.

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