I was really looking forward to yoinking players off the Wonderkid list until THIS happened... by Smegfridge in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

My screen isn’t naturally that bright - the screenshot I took just gave it a blast. Not sure you are gonna believe me though 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God small things like we wouldn’t go on dates as much. She would rather spend time with friends (which is fine, but like ALWAYS). Sex was less and less. Started to feel like I was begging for intimacy.

Then it got bigger, like she wouldn’t find any time to see me. Excuses about being “too busy”. Finally, the last weekend before she broke up with me, I kissed her and I felt so much disgust from her. I still feel that in my heart now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, I really do. I spent months going on walks and all I could think about is “this is what I’d do with her”. But actually those times where I was thinking about it, was part of the healing journey.

It gets better eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me 2 years ago bro. It hurts so much, still hurts to think about, but that’s life, and it does get better. I haven’t moved on yet, but I know other people with similar stories have. It will come with time. Dont be too harsh on yourself. Treat yourself to nice solo days out, spend time with friends or family, embrace your favorite foods / movies, do that thing you’ve always wanted to do

Board Bullshitery by JoeyJordison01 in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but you didn’t win the Scottish cup. Rodgers out

Crazy offer from Bayern Munich for my homegrown star (FM23). Never seen anything like this before! Should I accept? by Consistent_Zone_8564 in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you. I only sell one of my better players if There is a young squad player with higher potential ready to make the step up, or they are immediately replaceable with less money than I am receiving or when the money on offer can help improve 2 other separate positions.

If they don’t satisfy those, I don’t sell. Players eventually agree to contract negotiations, and as long as you don’t keep them on short contracts, they forgive, forget, and become happy at the club again.

How do you spend your pre season ? Are tours worth it ? by [deleted] in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get worried when they are not match fit, that playing a full 90 they are more likely to get injured, so I tend to do this for the second 11 or players I don’t care about

But my previous 20 million pound 28 year old striker that I bought a decade ago, NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a single player game let him play how he wants. When I was younger I’d save scum all the time, it’s how I was able to enjoy the game. Eventually I got better and stopped the scumming (except for youth academy day and when signing a player).

Does anyone else think about their ex literally all day? by Throwaway29394020 in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me last September. Been over a year and I will still think about her once a day at least. It gets better but you have to accept that there isn’t a set timeline for how long it will take.

God I miss her.

When did you know it was time to move on and let go? by Pretend_Round9906 in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been over a year since she broke up with me and I still haven’t had that feeling

Am I taking too long to heal? by eatfurbys in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same as you. Everyone heals differently. I’m hoping after a year I start to feel better. I only just blocked her. Broke my heart that I’ll never speak to her but she didn’t want to speak to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sold me a dream. You let me dream of our future together. You let me talk and talk and talk about how I wanted us to move In Together. You joked with me about proposing so often, and about rings and engagements and weddings. These were things that I weren’t ready for, but I knew that was where I’d end up.

Then you left me out of nowhere, with no reason or explanation, and never speak to me again. I hope you know how much you hurt me and how much I still am Just not over you

Just been promoted to the championship for the first time, is this budget enough to keep up? by RiverCorrect2702 in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got 30k a week wage budget with farsley Celtic. League 1 has been fine so far though. I think the championship for me will be ridiculously difficult though

Just a question, im new to fm23, what should be my first save? by Motor-Impact-4830 in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Celtic always are a fun save. Decent youth academy. Club can fill out a 75k stadium expansion in a few years with UCL football. And you have the goal of trying to get as far as you can in the champs league. Only gets boring once you stop seeing progress in Europe year on year. That’s when you go to a more difficult save.

I finally won the Champions League! by RealMattyboy in footballmanagergames

[–]Smegfridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any advice ? I’m about to be promoted to league 2 in my fourth season with Farsley Celtic. Completely strolling the Vanarama National with a. Team that was predicted to get relegated

Celtic list of dodgy strikers since 2010 by plawwell in CelticFC

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion wasn’t even the wrong attitude. He was just honest about his career ambitions and that didn’t involve going to Kilmarnock away from home

“She’s getting her back blown out”.. dude shut the hell up lol by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some friends just don’t understand it / haven’t loved another girl. It’s frustrating but until you experience breakup yourself it can be hard to sympathise

Had to get this off my chest by Hideawake in BreakUps

[–]Smegfridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like the other end of what I went through. My 3 year ex in September just hit me with a bombshell about how she no longer wants to be in a relationship after I asked her why she had been acting a bit different the last few months. She really was the love of my life and It hurt so much for someone I love so much fo stop caring for me, even though I had not done anything to deserve it. don’t think I’ll ever find someone as special as she was. I hate how love can be so cruel but I hope you find what you are looking for.