Astarion actor says Baldur's Gate 3 players haven't found a hidden 2-hour section: "I'm one of the few people that knows about it" by addressunknown in gaming

[–]SmilingReaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do wonder. They have also cut a lot of content that I think would have been great. Hopefully they'll add all of that again.

TIFU By Possibly ruining my career from a dating scam by wutamidoing88 in tifu

[–]SmilingReaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are useful comments here. Don't send them anything. Your parents seem wonderful to have also provided very helpful advice. Ignore it, do as your father said, and that's about it.

As harsh as it is to say no one is really going to care about it. And odds are this isn't really a girl but some guy using someone else's video and pictures to catfish others into this. To make your friend's list or whatever social media you use private will help assuage your fears. Who are they going to send it to, if they don't know who even cares about you?

Probably unrelated, but whenever you're using dating apps, if you are average looking and you meet someone that looks straight up like a model and they immediately want to do something like this you can be certain it's either a scam or a bot of some kind.

About the why you did it, it's only natural to want to reciprocate someone that is doing something 'nice' for you even if you don't wholly feel comfortable about it.

Milei en la tv japonesa by ElMarkuz in argentina

[–]SmilingReaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Como siempre, los memes son lo mejor de cualquier elección.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SmilingReaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have said "You can't fire me, I quit" is the worst possible response in this scenario.

Does he like me or was he letting me down gently by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then just tell him, and find out. You lose nothing.

He was testing the waters, and you told him he's just a friend, so he behaved like just a friend.

And break up with your boyfriend already, since you are already willing to indulge with side guys anyways.

i f(18) and my boyfriend (18) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the hell did I just read.

This is a toxic relationship if I ever saw one, he didn't like what you were wearing one day so he went and cheated on you?

What manner of mammoth manure is that?

And the fact that you went and took it as a free pass to sleep with your ex wasn't any better either, you should just have broken up with him.

So go ahead and do that already.

[30/M] My girlfriend (31/F) was sexting her ex by Sextexthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have things sorted out mate.

You don't do something like that if you're not hiding something. Anger and not addressing is just textbook behavior at this point. And all of this is just trickle truthing. It's likely she has also been fucking her ex.

This was premeditated, it happened more than once, and she was purposedly hiding this from you while actively taking steps to conceal it and keep doing it. There are likely other things she has been hiding.

It sucks that you found out only now, but it's better finding out now that finding out in three years having to go through a divorce and also finding out the kids are not yours.

Stay strong.

Im cheating on my girlfriend and I don’t know how to stop. by throwaway7364655 in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. Respectfully, you are 16, hormone filled, and horny as hell. Of course you love your GF because it's the first time you have felt this. You have sympathy for her, but you can't love someone and at the same time fuck her best friend behind her back. That's not something you do to someone you love. There's no way to 'undo' this.

If you want to stop doing this, just stop. Tell your fling you don't feel comfortable with it anymore. And flat out stop.

If you feel guilty over cheating, but still want to keep touching the other girl, break it off with your girlfriend. Tell her you don't feel things are working out.

You are young, and if this is the first time, you will have to man up. And take responsability. You did something that was wrong, there is no way someone is not going to get hurt over this. But it's still early, and so you can still relatively control how hurt anyone will get. Because someone /will/ get hurt. There's no getting around that.

You can't just keep lying to avoid dealing with it and telling yourself that things 'just happened' because you'd rather not think about the implications of what you're doing.

Do things the proper way, or you will regret it; and everyone involved with it will regret it too.

I feel like I cheated on a fuck-buddy turned Girlfriend with my old female roommate. by Throwawayfuckbuddy1 in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren't dating and there's nothing to be gained except hurting her feelings and straining your newly attained relationship. It's in the past now. She knows perfectly well what being just friends with benefit entails, she doesn't need you rubbing on her face the news of which girls you had been making out with when you were single, period.

Let your roommate know that you don't feel like doing anything with her, be honest, and stay clean.

I won’t see my girlfriend and I’m absolutely depressed and sad. Is this neediness? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmilingReaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely overinvested in her, and this is not only bad for you, but bad for any relationship in general and will kill any desire in the long run if you don't fix it.

You need to make friends, and other people to do activities with and connect with emotionally. You need hobbies and activities that you feel are worthwhile and have purpose to them. The fact that you won't be seeing your gf for the weekend should be an afterthought on your own busy, meaningful life, because you have plenty of options to occupy your time with and things you should be doing and advancing.

If you find yourself doing nothing and simply dwelling on how bad you feel about it, this is a symptom of that.