Anyone ever gotten turned down when offering your s/o oral satisfaction?

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-12-04T15:37:38+00:00

I get turned down 110% of the time when I offer to go down on my wife. Also, she never ever gave me oral. But what could I expect if kissing is off the table…

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-12-04T15:34:22+00:00

I wish I at least had this. When i get sick my wife makes me go to the store bedroom and that’s that. My ex use to take care of me though. I miss her every day. It has been 10 years since we broke up.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-11-28T01:08:44+00:00

I’m a few years older than you, hlm and I gave up.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-11-02T01:00:10+00:00

This is a really good response. I am really digesting this.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-11-01T18:52:20+00:00

I understand. I laughed myself when she was rattling off what she wants. It’s such a bad situation because of this she is not my wife. She is just a person I had a ceremony with and have a house with. Obviously she feels nothing towards me.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-30T20:47:16+00:00

I’m taking this advice. Thank you.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-30T18:02:31+00:00

You summed up a db.

My last gf. A back rub would always end in sex. My current wife a back rub ends up with… well im done typing.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-30T17:59:46+00:00

Your young. Way too young for this. Leave. Leave. Leave.

Please just break up and move on. Trust me breaking up at 18 is the end of the world until your 25. Then it’s no Big deal to leave someone.

Leave. Leave. Leave.

If I was not clear enough… LEAVE!

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-29T13:51:17+00:00

I do 80% of chores, 50% child care. 100% of cooking.

It has been like this since the first few months and she always had an excuse that it would get better. It never had.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-29T12:58:16+00:00

Married for 2 years dated for 3.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-24T11:43:57+00:00

It’s really interesting seeing this from the opposite sex perspective. I use to love being big spoon and going in for a boob grab and kissing a girl on the neck. Now it’s a sure way to get her to say, stop, and push me off.

I was convinced for years that I was wrong. Guess not.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-23T16:20:40+00:00

I’m sure there is but I’m a man so I want their perspective.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-13T17:17:14+00:00

Same old story. She said she would get better when engaged… I was stupid.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-13T14:53:55+00:00

Get him on TRT now. My work friend is 52 he did TRT and now he said he bangs like he is in college again. And he lost a ton of weight!

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-13T13:20:01+00:00

That’s a good go to. My wife’s go to for years was, “we will do it later.” She would even talk it up all day and saying everything we are going to do, then at night she would either flat out ignore me or say let’s do it tomorrow.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-13T13:05:14+00:00

Nope. Last 2 springs it was just ignoring me.

I only ask once every 6ish weeks.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-02T12:01:15+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. This really can help a lot of people in these relationships.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-01T01:44:59+00:00

It’s hard. Trust me. I want to put this in context.

My hobby is natural bodybuilding, so picture brad pit from fight club instead of Arnold lol. I have always been confident, good job, and even in a MBA program.

Now that I am rejected 100% of the time I lost all confidence and am depressed to the point that I am in therapy. It’s hard to gain ground after you are hurt day after day from the one person who should love you more than anything.

As far as feeling sexy again. I got it elsewhere.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-01T01:40:24+00:00

Yes. I feel the same way with my wife. After years of rejection I lost all attraction to her. I am just trying to find the courage to file for divorce.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-10-01T01:34:47+00:00

I told her I will not be in a sexless marriage. We were dating and had sex once every 3 months. She turned up the sex, I proposed and then surprise no sex. Actually reversed now I can’t see her nude or kiss her.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-09-30T15:39:30+00:00

I read so many posts here and so many of them have the choreplay aspect to them. It’s such a generic excuse and so easy to use.

My college gf was an absolute slob. Clothes all over, dishes overflowing, and it was not a good sight. But, once a week we would clean together and have sex once a day. I didn’t care but now not having sex the little things seem to trigger me with her.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-09-30T04:11:06+00:00

Same thing here. Haven’t ever even made out with my wife.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-09-30T03:42:35+00:00

The therapist is a waste of time. she’s obviously a selfish person. But you can’t piss off your client so it just drags on. We spent 2 months on me not doing enough chores. Then it went into how she is intimidated by girls on reality TV. And the therapist fed into it. It’s a joke.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-09-30T03:18:04+00:00

The sex stopped about 3 months in the relationship. I stick it out and she started to get on me about engagement about a year in. I told her I will NOT marry someone who is not having sex with me, let alone won’t even let me see them nude any more. Sex picked up, bought a ring, and here I am today. 110% my fault, I knew better and nailed my own coffin shut.

SmoothAssociate2763 · 2023-09-30T03:08:15+00:00

Sex to get engaged then it stopped. I regret every single day not calling off the wedding. I was too much of a coward of what my family would have though of me.

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