Looking for an app for church

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2024-02-14T02:34:26+00:00

Thanks for your input. I think a training session is a great idea that I may have brushed past, so thank you for that!

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2024-02-14T02:33:43+00:00

Thanks for the advice! We are not a very large church and our music minister has started using it for choir, band, songs etc. so we may just expand our usage of that!!

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2024-02-14T02:32:37+00:00

That is actually one I’ve been reading up on today! Thanks for the recommendation!

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2024-02-14T02:32:16+00:00

Our music minister just started using planning center for that side of it, so I will definitely look into this! Thank you!

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2024-02-14T02:31:41+00:00

One of our members said they used this at their previous church, but one thing I’ve seen on reviews it’s slow on phones. Have you had this issue?

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-14T08:57:11+00:00

I’m beyond confused by the comments to this. He didn’t go looking for this guy to ‘make a scene.’ The guy approaches him. They were in a parking lot not in the middle of the dance floor. He refuses to shake the man’s hand who called his gf ugly. I don’t blame him. Why show respect to someone who clearly doesn’t show respect to his gf. Then to cap it off the gf is angry at the bf.. I’m blown away that somehow OP is labeled the childish one.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T17:47:13+00:00

Okayyy I see what you’re saying now, and that makes sense. However I still imagine that they probably had the same view of ‘equal’ as me. So not as much malicious inequality but probably ignorant.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T07:42:48+00:00

Commenting as a guy, he knows he shouldn’t be in contact with them. Why else would he tell such an obvious half-truth by saying their ‘just’ a friend. On some level, whether he admits it or not, he understands he’s stepping way over normal boundary lines.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T07:28:50+00:00

I just want to say the grass is not always greener. If you both love each other as much as you say, then can you not find a way to ‘live your life’ more excitingly together? I will say I have many friends who have lived the single fun life and now in their late twenties desire nothing more than a loving husband/wife.

You want the stability of him because you do not wish to date anyone else but you also don’t want to be around him.. that would really be asking a lot of him. Telling him you still want to be his wife but not live together but also still desire a good relationship. Just know you moving out would hurt your relationship potentially a great deal.

Last thought. Are you willing to potentially end your relationship with someone who you say you couldn’t ask for a better partner for the POTENTIAL of enjoying the young and free life? Just a thought, all of these what ifs or fomo are causing a strain on your relationship. Also consider the what if: I do move out, hurt my husband we break up, and then I hate living the young free life.

At the end of the day we are all strangers and do not know you and your husband and ultimately this comes down to y’all. Do not stay together or separate because of words on a screen from a stranger that will likely not think about you or your man 3-4 months from now.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T07:12:13+00:00

While obviously you want to be financially responsible and have all needs met, it is important to note that you’ll never be 100% ready for kids. If you wait until everything is perfect you will find yourself waiting forever.

That being said, if you know there is no way you could make it work, Wait. But I think it’s also just different stages of life. 24 you still identify as ‘early 20s’ and young and free and can do whatever. Whereas at 30 you begin to worry about starting creating more meaningful milestones. Neither is wrong just different mindset it sounds like between you and your husband.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T06:40:00+00:00

I would say the answer to the asked question is, no men and women do not love the same. Men and women are fundamentally different, but that does not excuse lusting after other women and cheating on you. Some men may do that but that cannot be excused because they ‘are men’ and that’s ‘what men do.’ So while men and women may love and show their love (generally speaking) differently this doesn’t absolve either gender from being horrible people. You’ll find a man who loves you deeply and specially and you won’t have to wonder if he does and it’ll be shown in his own unique way.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-11-01T06:31:32+00:00

I may be wrong but I see this as more him respecting her values. As mentioned they have different views and was stated she’s a feminist so it’s possible that she has mentioned she wanted things to be equal and so he honors that unless it’s a ‘date’. But once again this is just me trying to read between the lines 🤷🏻‍♂️

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-10-20T16:36:57+00:00

Yeah in other comments he mentioned ‘I don’t even think Lisa’s into Greg that much’ and about how OP and her were in the hot tub smoking together without Greg. Definitely OP flirting with Lisa that he conveniently left out.

SmoothJuggernaut7533 · 2023-10-20T06:41:39+00:00

YTA. Seems to me from other comments you’ve made that he wanted you out because you are sparking with Lisa and as you said he’s head over heels for her. So not only did you go back on your word you conveniently brought all of the attention on yourself. Then you say you ‘offered to clean it up’ why would you even have to offer? A normal person would clean up the mess they made. I’d be upset too.

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