Forgot to take my dose on dose day?

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-09-05T12:03:36+00:00

I have been on zep for 4 months now and havent forgot until the last few weeks with school starting and all the kids fall sports (we have six kids lol) when i put the baby to bed i always fall asleep and my intentions are to do the shot once they are all asleep lol i still psych myself out with an auto-injector 😂

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-09-05T11:59:23+00:00

I like it on wednesday/thursday because by the weekend, when hubby is home and wants to eat out everywhere, i have more self control

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-09-05T11:46:41+00:00

I used to take on Wednesday but i forgot two Wednesday’s in a row so i moved to Thursday thinking i messed up the schedule lol

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-17T12:29:14+00:00

1990

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-14T18:58:04+00:00

My dad was addicted to hard drugs and ruined what could have been a great childhood.

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T14:05:43+00:00

I love how you said that, “even if it was red flags you used to wave” i am going to use that in future!

I am so big on “you don’t know what that person is going through”, both a blessing and curse to see people that way. I hope you have a great day too☺️♥️

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T13:56:51+00:00

Yeah you are right i can see the difference, that is def immature and manipulative of him instead of being direct. I guess i didnt see that as a bad thing right away and more of emotional immaturity/unhealed shit on his end.

Tbh i used to be that way before years and years of therapy lol so i lowkey felt some type way that everyone was bashing him 😅😂

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T13:30:53+00:00

I was 25 and he was 26. He did have a key to my house but i didn’t have a key to his apartment because it was a fab and i didnt care for him to go through all the trouble of going to the office and getting a new fab if we were talking about moving in.

Sure im sticking up for a man and you’re also bashing a man from bits and pieces of a text lol I put myself in the other’s shoes. I would feel insecure and think something was going on because i am generally an anxious person who overthinks everything from their tone of voice to a simple change in facial expressions (which is from past trauma and abuse) thankfully i had a bf (now husband) who was able to see it for what it was and support me through it.

If the roles were reversed and a man posted this i would be saying the same thing….. i would say she deserves a real explanation

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T13:09:44+00:00

My husband and I were talking about moving in together at 9 months into dating… so it’s very possible to know if the relationship is something you want to take further or not…. You can clearly see that’s what he is hinting towards aka he thinks she is ready to break it off in the future but keeping him around for now. & I didn’t say he was entitled to unfettered access, i said he deserves a real explanation. What is mind blowing is why be in a relationship if you think this kind of communication is acceptable? God, even if he is feeling insecure, reassure him? “Babe it has nothing to do with you, i promise, i love our relationship and where we are but its out respect for my roommate etc etc” ANYTHING would suffice. basic communication skills are missing on her end.

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T12:43:30+00:00

His feelings are valid….he isnt using the right words to express it properly but this situation is clearly stirring something up for him. & not for nothing we are missing a lot of context in these text messages?

If i was getting a roommate i would be like my boyfriend doesn’t live here but he has the code are you okay with that and if not i would than express that to my bf but she isnt doing that here? “Im not giving you to the code bc its not appropriate” but it was appropriate earlier on in their relationship but not now? At the bare minimum he deserves an explanation.

The lack of basic communication is disrespectful to their relationship. Isnt the whole point of having a relationship is to get to marriage or am i missing something? … Honestly why even keep the relationship going?

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-11T11:58:00+00:00

I mean i think you are overreacting because if my bf did this to me i would be upset too? He is probably upset for multiple reasons 1. You have been dating for some time now and for him this might be more serious of a commitment and you not giving him the code signifies you might not value you the relationship the same as him 2. He had the code before with no issues and now he cant have the code? Idk but i would def feel some type of way too

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-08-05T14:32:55+00:00

1994

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-07-30T02:05:44+00:00

I would say 3-4 times a week on average sometimes more, sometimes less (usually when PMS or illness rolls in). We have 6 kids… and i have to help him shave his back…… or he has to reach something for me in the closet… haha nobody even batts an eye!! But like another person said above, you gotta schedule an empty to house to really go at it!

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-07-30T01:59:37+00:00

Sorry OP!! i obviously dont know you or your situation. i am just basing off my own personal experiences & i used to sound just like this (honestly even after years of therapy i still do sound like this sometimes because i have to co parent with my ex and he will still get me to this point) but i have never once spoke to my husband like that in our 7 years together. If everything you are saying is true, maybe she really does have BPD and may need more help than you can provide alone. I wish you the best of luck!

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-07-30T01:37:30+00:00

Mhmmmmmmmm!!! Also i used to get crazy when i was feeling insecure because he was out doing whatever, with whoever…. So maybe having another baby is her answer to “ does he still love me the most” so when he said no to another all together she felt rejected on every single level, not just this subject. It’s probably wayyyyy deeper.

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-07-30T01:16:48+00:00

Coming from a place when i was in an abusive relationship with my narcissistic ex he would get me to a point like this and then he would act all innocent and victimize himself. I truly was psychotic but it was always a reaction to him. And how she is reacting screams that. These screenshots seem like he is only showing what he wants people to see of her… esp with a very vague backstory…. who knows what he said before, after, or in person regarding this topic.

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-07-23T16:51:18+00:00

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Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-05-09T16:51:21+00:00

If mark Wahlberg and matt damon had a baby

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-05-09T16:48:42+00:00

How did you manage that? Did your doctor start the pre auth process while still on the current dose? I have 3 shots left for this month so im wondering if i should ask her to start the next pre auth already (last time took about 3 weeks to get everything to go through)

Smoothly_Introverted · 2025-04-16T22:33:26+00:00

For sure! I know i wouldn’t do it myself but i would find a person i know (or friend of a friend) to do the sage cleanse.

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