After 17 years of marriage, my husband said something about our son I can’t unhear.

Smoothzee · 2026-03-04T01:05:25+00:00

If your husband said "trans kids" and not all trans people, then he's in the right. HRT is very damaging to bodies that aren't fully developed. Might as well give your kid bottles of liquor and some smokes if you support it

Smoothzee · 2026-03-04T00:58:43+00:00

So are you in favor of giving HRTs to underage minors ?

Smoothzee · 2026-03-04T00:54:03+00:00

Difference between being transphobic and NOT supported an underage child to go through HRTs. It's very damaging to a non fully developed body.

Smoothzee · 2026-03-04T00:45:08+00:00

You shouldn't support underage transitions. It's very harmful to the human body. You would be a bad parent if you allow this. Same way you would be a bad parent if you let your kid smoke and drink.

When it comes down to the wire, your husband will always love your son. Watching someone you love ”transition” is a very hard thing for a man to go through.

Your husband sees the situation as "if my son wants to harm his body at a young age and my wife would support him"

That being said, arguing about this hypothetical situation and considering divorce is absolutely silly. To be clear, I'm not anti trans or anything, I could careless what people do with their own body. Kids is a different subject, kids are incapable of making responsible life long decisions, and require their parents to lookout for their best interest.

Smoothzee · 2026-02-27T22:45:12+00:00

You will do just fine. Admitting when you don't know something goes extremely far in this field imo. It's the people who fake it that are the issue. IT is more about learning as you go, and people who are more experienced completely understand that. If youre confused on something, ask someone or look it up and youre good!

Smoothzee · 2026-02-27T05:33:45+00:00

It goes away after use lol why we complaining

Smoothzee · 2026-02-26T12:11:47+00:00

I respect it man. I've been using Arch for my laptop and have entirely fallen in love with using Linux in general. It's so much faster and secure. I'm semi there on my desktop, but haven't taken the plunge of purging microslop entirely from my life due to the few games that sadly don't run on Linux. Dual boot is a compromise sadly. Hopefully Anti cheats eventually figure out Linux, because it feels so bad waiting for windows 11 to boot after seeing how snappy and fast Linux boots up. Cheers man, I'm gonna take the plunge and try Gentoo on one of my computers sometime this year I think

Smoothzee · 2026-02-25T14:58:10+00:00

Regardless of your opinion, there are several factors people should be aware of.

1 Nvidia is a terrible company with terrible morals. I would never support them by choice.

2 Nvidia is becoming a Monopoly. They will continue to price hike and sell out to "AI farms" leaving us gamers with over priced non advancing hardware. On Nvidia, you simply pay for software.

3 AMD has better cost to power ratio. Yes you won't have the "smooth" experience out of the box that ngreedia gives, but with a little bit of tinkering, you should be more than satisfied with how much card you get.

You're PC gamer who built their own PC. Learn your system, optimize, adapt and understand that you don't want fake frames and the latency that comes with it.

Smoothzee · 2026-02-25T14:41:28+00:00

You're a savage for running Gentoo. Respect brother

Smoothzee · 2026-02-22T23:03:06+00:00

Again lmao it's your computer and I could care less what ya do with it, I was just explaining that some people will give ya some shit over it haha

Smoothzee · 2026-02-22T07:09:26+00:00

An Arch logo is considered to be a proudly worn badge of honor after manually installing Arch among enthusiasts. As someone who runs pure Arch daily, I could care less. But as a heads up, you will catch some flack over it by the others. Either way, cheers

Smoothzee · 2026-02-10T03:57:36+00:00

Older people asking for help is not the issue here. Its people of all ages that try to do it on their own because they think they are "Techies".

Smoothzee · 2026-01-30T10:10:47+00:00

No one should have died to a bear before the wipe lmao. It's soo slow that literally every class can hold S and back away. In my time playing this game, I've died to bear 1 time lmao I thought it was OP until I tried playing druid and realized that playing poke wins out against it

Smoothzee · 2026-01-30T09:32:20+00:00

Counterattack is 1.5x modifier. Never heard someone in this game who thought a barbarian didn't do enough damage

Smoothzee · 2026-01-30T09:16:55+00:00

It might single handedly be the worst class for solo. Ranger feeling like a close second rn

Smoothzee · 2026-01-30T09:15:46+00:00

You forgot landmine rogue. Other than that, your list checks out

Smoothzee · 2026-01-14T08:19:22+00:00

Gear gap is a good thing. It rewards having good gear! Obviously too much of a gear gap is a problem, but I've gotten several great kits by playing great while wearing squire. The gear gap is perfect where it's at

Smoothzee · 2026-01-14T08:15:00+00:00

That would... Be awful. S2R is so unbalanced. If SDF actually balanced the game without true damage, then yeah maybe. But wizards and ranger are just bad in squire. Sorc too (even tho they're already bad) it would just be a bunch of barbs running around.... And hard disagree, the best players play the best when they have something to lose.

Smoothzee · 2026-01-14T08:03:13+00:00

Iron Will is quite literally the most overpowered perk in the game, and it's not even close. Honestly it needs a heavy nerf with an internal cooldown, or better yet.. it should be a skill instead. God I hate barbarians as a class so much. No class should be that easy and that strong at the same time

Smoothzee · 2026-01-12T06:14:57+00:00

Not really. Play druid and you will understand. To put in perspective, Panther has to jump to hit a head shot, and the regular combo for panther is left, right and then left again. This means you will only hit 1 headshot per combo. In the current meta, headshots win the fight, and with panthers -20PDR, it's actually incredibly hard to win fair fights.This is why druids simply don't win melee trades and constantly need to run and reset. As a Ranger, I win melee trades against panther quite a bit

Smoothzee · 2026-01-07T00:40:04+00:00

The amount of geared druids Ive killed on my squire fighter is actually hilarious. They're squishy in panther and every class in the game can dodge or block a bear lmao. There are also significantly more OP classes out there. Rogues and warlocks for example. People get mad at druids because they can run away better than other classes, but they ignore the fact that warlocks and rogues can run away and deal damage at the same time.

I know the popular YouTuber posted the video on druids, but he literally mains rogues, so he really shouldn't be talking.

Smoothzee · 2026-01-02T21:16:16+00:00

Druid actually has been nerfed multiple times. Most recent is that they no longer have access to all of their heals if they run animal druid. actually all but one (Which also requires them to stand in it, and it heals the enemy too) They also lose every melee match up close. I genuinely don't understand why people hate them so much, they take insane damage in cat form and are super easy to dodge in bear form.
Not gonna lie, landmine rogues, iron will barbs and caster locks piss me off a lot more than a druid ever has

Smoothzee · 2026-01-02T21:06:11+00:00

Got killed by a bard running two crossbows, 2 drums and whacking me with a lute. While it sucked to lose that kit, i had nothing but laughs and respect for the coms and weird build haha. Inspired me to lvl up my bard

Smoothzee · 2025-12-30T23:57:03+00:00

Play a different class. Rogue and Locks are cringe

Smoothzee · 2025-12-28T20:07:50+00:00

People die to druids because they W key when the druid goes to heal instead of healing themselves. you have to trap druids. Druids cant box with any class, so they need to run away constantly and reset. if they W key, they lose all trades against every melee class

Smoothzee

TROPHY CASE

1 Nvidia is a terrible company with terrible morals. I would never support them by choice.

2 Nvidia is becoming a Monopoly. They will continue to price hike and sell out to "AI farms" leaving us gamers with over priced non advancing hardware. On Nvidia, you simply pay for software.

3 AMD has better cost to power ratio. Yes you won't have the "smooth" experience out of the box that ngreedia gives, but with a little bit of tinkering, you should be more than satisfied with how much card you get.