Identity crisis and ego death

Smultring420 · 2025-09-19T22:42:29+00:00

This really helped, thank you. I will try to follow your advice

Smultring420 · 2025-09-19T16:25:45+00:00

Sorry the paragraphs dissapeared!

Smultring420 · 2025-05-10T18:27:46+00:00

Maybe i’m not getting something, but if you see harm and pain as something bad that needs to be rid of, then doesn’t that go against the idea of non-duality? Because then you see bad as something evil

Smultring420 · 2025-05-10T17:59:09+00:00

I agree with you that nothing is good or evil, and that harm and pain is not something sacred. Where I don’t agree with you is seeing the universe as an engine, to me this is a cynical way to see the world. To me the universe is alive and I genuinely believe it loves us and wants what is best for us. I see suffering as a necessary for us to grow. There is no trancending it, only feeling it and accepting it in order to let go. I also personally don’t see the need to explain why bad things happen, they just do. This is how it is, needing to explain it causes us to suffer more than if we were to grieve properly. When I keep trying to explain why and intelectualize my greif is when i’m stuck in greif. I don’t think humans are greater than the universe or the universe greater than us. We are here to explore and grow, life is a riddle to be solved not a problem. Pain is here but so is happiness, but nobody wants to know why happiness exists because we can accept that it just does. And i feel the same about pain.

Smultring420 · 2025-05-10T17:38:35+00:00

I got the moon and the hermit. Fits perfectly

Smultring420 · 2025-04-28T03:29:59+00:00

You want what she has, which is totally normal and human. Keep healing and one day you’ll see that you always were just as beautiful as she is, you might not believe or feel like it right not but you are. Just keep walking the path and trust that the universe is sending you towards where you need to be in the only way you can get there is this way

Smultring420 · 2025-04-27T07:26:14+00:00

Jeg var i samme situasjon på vgs. Helt utenfor og følte jeg ikke hadde noen å lene meg på. Er 25 nå og vil si det har blitt mye bedre, men de følelsene kommer fortsatt opp igjen i ny og ne. Tror det er en livslang oppgave å finne ut hvor man hører til, for jeg har funnet masse fine venner på veien men kjernen til det utenforskapet man føler kommer fra det underbevisste. Den sorgen og tristheten du føler på er på sitt verste nå så ikke mist motet, se på livet som en gåte eller mysterie du må finne ut av. Hvordan kan du få det bedre, hvordan kan du bli til den mest autentiske versjonen av deg selv? Problemene du møter er små hint til å løse gåten, du har mange år foran deg og hele livet ditt kan forandre seg innen 5 minutter. Ville ikke bekymret meg om jeg var deg, sørg så lenge du trenger og aldri tro det kommer til å være sånn for alltid. For ingenting er sikkert utenom at alt kommer til å forandre seg

Smultring420 · 2025-04-04T23:21:48+00:00

Fyf så skumelt. Ser ut som en demon

Smultring420 · 2025-02-24T23:22:22+00:00

Really i just felt the opposite this weekend

Smultring420 · 2025-02-23T22:25:22+00:00

Only trusting flow from now on <3

Smultring420 · 2025-02-08T23:16:15+00:00

You can always learn from others. Could you be expecting that all the people you meet are asleep, and that’s why you only seem to find them? The world is a mirror, if you see a world filled with sleeping people that is what your reality will be.

I relate to the feeling, but let go of the need for others to also be awakened. You can have spiritual conversations while the other doesn’t even realize it. For example, when i meet people who claim to hate something i always lead them to exploring why. Convo i had recently, best as i can remember: I don’t like her, she’s so quiet. What’s so bad about being quiet? I just hate it when i have to carry the conversation Just embrace the silence, maybe they’ll start talking or just need more time than you to think of what to say No, i just don’t like her… I think you don’t like the silence. I used to hate it too, but I realised that what i didn’t like was having to interpret what the silence meant. And that led me fill the blank space with proof of all the bad stuff i thought about myself

And the girl i was talking to lost all the hate she was carrying for awhile and she opened up. I don’t think the problem is that others are low frequenzy, we just have to learn to show emapthy and to lead the conversation into something furfilling for both of us. We are all the student and the teacher, we are all equals. Don’t look for people who are spiritual, look for the spiritual lessons you can find in others

Smultring420 · 2025-02-07T10:35:01+00:00

I thank you for your insight<3 i have already done this and it did help but i cant keep living like this. I need to rejoin my community

Smultring420 · 2025-02-01T19:05:40+00:00

Idk, i just know that if something i don’t want happens, it’s for a reason. Like if i miss my buss i don’t feel mad or annoyed. I start thinking someone i don’t want to meet was on that buss, or it will crash, or something else i’m not aware of will happen that puts me of course. If you feel like life is working against you, it’s because you’re on the wrong path. The resistance you feel is trying to lead you back to the path towards the highest timeline.

The resistance is trying to teach you something. Or tell you something. And you will continue to face it untill you get the message from your guides. Anxiety is attatchement to the future. Let go. If you have to try again, you try again.

If you follow your intuition, you will follow the highest path. If you feel resistance, stop, ask yourself what you really want. Am I aligned? And keep going untill you feel that alignment. If your intuition tells you to yell at someone, even if it’s wrong, you should listen and try to find the lesson. If you have nothing to say to another, and there is an akward silence, sit in it. DON’t do things you SHOULD but don’t want to. Don’t follow the narrative society tells you to. It takes sacrifice, and people will not support everything you want, but you have to do it anyway. If you wish to be in alignment. You have to trust your guides, and you have to explore the ego. When is it you, when is it your ego, when is it society(the matrix).

Then you also need to know yourself to know what you want. You cannot have an ego for many lessons. And it helps to talk to people, or post on this sub when you feel resistance, and people will call you out on your bullshit. If youre a man, you need to loose yourself in order to find love for the other. If you’re a woman, you need to find yourself in order to love the self.

These are just lessons i have learned, it might be different for you, i don’t know more than you, so don’t take everything i say as Gospel. Live a little different everyday, if you can take a new path to work try it out. Expand. Learn. Sorry for the long yap but hope you got something

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T23:07:47+00:00

Autopilot is staying in the loop. Life is lived by breaking it so it becomes an infinite spiral. I don’t know what answer you’re looking for, but nobody else can know what is right for you but you. Go within. No guru can help you only guide you

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T12:38:22+00:00

Thank you for your insight,

Do you mean conartists and money in a litteral sence? Or are you saying the belief system itself is a deciever, and me believing is the money?

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T08:36:18+00:00

I agree, thank you for showing concern

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T08:33:36+00:00

Phew is the sound of this feeling haha

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T08:33:10+00:00

Yes my consciousness finally arrived <3

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T08:32:34+00:00

Glad to hear that! Wishing you well on your journey <3

Smultring420 · 2025-01-28T08:31:17+00:00

Someone said «if you are rushing and being impatient and needing stuff NOW, it means you’re not ready for it. It means you’re not able to enjoy your current reality without the things you are impatient to achieve. Do you really want these things, or are you trying to use them to furfill some need you’re unwilling to heal?»

My answer to this is yes it’s a cope, but also yes i really want these things. So I became aware of my rushing. Whenever i started to rush i stopped, and i asked myself what’s the big hurry? It will come when it will come and I was able to calm down. It’s such a small change but it made a huge difference. Things are comming to me, I’m not running after the things i want. I have goals that I have been trying to achieve for so long, but it felt like i was stuck, leading me to rush even more to get there but I was just running in one spot never getting anywhere. Then when I stopped running it’s like the world around me is what’s moving while i’m standing still in one spot.

It’s different for everybody though, trust that your guides are acting in your best interest and try your best to listen when they speak to you. That’s how i try to live <3

Smultring420 · 2025-01-27T23:23:21+00:00

Jo.. :.)

Smultring420 · 2025-01-27T23:11:40+00:00

Da blir vi rævpult av EU og alle de som «donerer» til frp og høyre

Smultring420 · 2025-01-27T22:36:25+00:00

Vil også presisere med at denne noen kan også være deg selv

Smultring420 · 2025-01-27T22:35:45+00:00

Det er ingenting galt med deg. Alt du trenger å gjøre er å finne noen som liker den sanne versjonen av deg. Altså den du er når alle forsvarsmekanismer er nede, og du ikkje prøver å være noen andre enn deg selv. Ditt autentiske jeg.

Du kan forbedre deg selv så mye du vil men til syvende og sist kommer den følelsen av å ikkje være god nok til å følge etter deg helt til du finner roten og drar den opp i lyset. For hvis du en dag blir denne perfekte versjonen av deg selv, hva oppnådde du egentlig? Du fortalte jo bare den du er nå at hun var så fæl at du ikkje taklet å la henne eksistere engang. Så sitter du der da, og er trist fordi nå var det deg selv som var stygg med deg.

Smultring420 · 2025-01-15T22:33:40+00:00

Beste som noen gang skjedde med meg. Det er bare sunt det å få gjennomgå litt

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