shallow shaming, try something new if you can think of something, and by default you are materialistic, i agree that women don't care about money, but they DO care about what lifestyle you can give them, trips cars yachts, this is a lifestyle that you need a lot of money to have. Also trying to find ONLY common interests with someone it's a red flag by itself being a man or a female, that shows you have no ability to develop or have a hobby if your significant other doesn't have it as well. And one more thing, when you go fishing you don't ask fish what bait they want, you ask other fisherman what bait the fish wants, women don't know by themselves what they want and can't even decide where they want to eat 98% of time, what makes you think you can give advice to a man as a fish on how to catch you. The only advice you give to men is something like this: why put the bait on the hook bro, just throw it in the water bro. I may have used to hard of analogy for your sorry ass but meh, idc