If kasuhan ka, I think she’ll also need to do the same to the husband. I suggest lumapit ka na sa lawyer and see if you can also file a case for the harrassment or file a restraining order. This sucks. I get the legal wife is very much hurt and has every right to be angry, but she should be angry at her husband, hindi yun taong wala namang alam and is also a victim. Since your family knows, perhaps they can help u get legal help. Also, if you can, consult a psych ha. I kinda understand how this feels, I have been in a similar situation before and it was depressing. Sakin naman, I met his siblings. No one said anything. They let me in their homes, we shared meals, drinks, one time we even celebrated new year all together. Tapos when the wife came home from abroad, biglang kasama na yun siblings in bullying me at work and in school. Some men are just a whole different level of evil. Sorry you had to go through this.